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Advice regarding a women who I love

Last updated: 12th August 2023
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I had recently been in a haram relationship. The relationship ended a while back due to certain personal issues and both people agreeing that now is not the right time. We both admitted to still loving each other, and this whole situation has bought me much closer to my deen. Due to the fact that I still love her, and she was an amazing person, I still have the desire to marry her one day. I’ve been making dua endlessly for her and for us and waking up for tahajjud aswell. Although she’s stated that this is also what she desires, I don’t know if that’s what she wants, or if she is making dua just like I am for us. Please guide me on how I should proceed. Currently me and her have stopped all contact.

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

الجواب حامداومصليا

Firstly, you both must repent to Allah as you have formed a relationship before marriage which is Haram and sinful.

Secondly, It is important to have third party involvement like parents etc, to proceed with this.

And Allah knows best

09 Rabiul Awwal 1445/ 24 September 2023

Answer last updated on:
28th September 2023
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Ulamaa ID 04
Location: London