Sister
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I feel disgust and hatred towards my spouse. He is a good man and I don't find fault with his character, his Imaan or his family. I am just not attracted to the man and feel repulsed whenever he speaks to me or initiates intimacy. I have tried to overcome this but I cannot help feeling the way I am. I fear I am not upholding the obligations of a wife and I am not fulfilling his rights. I consider divorce everyday but I'm scared of the impact it'll have on both our families because I know it will cause great distress. Most of all I am scared of displeasing Allah and falling into sin. I need advise on what I would do in this situation. I know I am the bad one in the situation and I know I need to fix myself. I just do not know how to feel differently. Please advise me on what to do that won't cause me to displease Allah.
