Talaq e bayeen

Asslamoalikum! My husband and me talked about an issue suddenly my husband got angry and told me that you and your kids not even equal to my parents feet dust. I don't want to live with you. You can take your kids other matters will be discuss later. From my side you are free priviously and now. He spoke these words in Urdu (meri tarf sy tum kal bhi farig thi aur ajj bhi farig ho) Then he went to his room and we didn't talk after that day I listened some statements about talaq e bayeen. So I want to confirm that I got divorced or not if yes then how many time and after that what can we do my husband said his attention was not for divorce we don't want sepperation we have four kids. Same situation in past 4 years ago he said same words with anger that I don't want to live with you. You can take your kids and go. From my side you are free. (meri tarf sy tum farig ho) After that we live together and my husband said my intention is not for divorce I am just sacaring you. Kindly confirm in this situation what can we do what is the right thing we do? We are still in marriage? If divorce apply how many divorce I received from my husband is it count one or two?? Kindly please explain each and every thing. Jazakallah khair