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Last updated: 12th November 2019
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i am a girl of 27 years. i was in realtionship with a man of 49 years. i had a nikkah with him 2 years ago in a mosque without knowing my parents. but after my nikkah we have all the relation of husband and wife with each other. but my husband used to give me say me i divorce u many times. even 3 divorces at a time but before the iddah period he revokes to me and build a realtion of husband and wife again. it has been done 4 to 5 time same case he repeat the divorce and then revoke in iddah period as a husband wife. i want to ask am i still his wife? or i am haram to him? is it permissble to me to go to his bed?

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

الجواب حامداومصليا

Three Talaqs will take place and you will become Haram for each other. The husband will neither have the right to revoke the divorce nor to renew the Nikah. Without the process of Halala you will not be able to go back to your husband.

NB. Halala, a woman marries another man, consummates the marriage and then gets divorced again or he passes away, in order to marry the former husband. 

وان كان الطلاق ثلاثا في الحرة وثنتين في الأمة لم تحل له من بعد حتى تنكح زوجاغيره نكاحاصحيحا ويدخل بهاثم يطلقهاأويموت عنها 

(الفتاوى العالمكيرية ج.1 ص.473 كتاب الطلاق باب الرجعة)

And Allah knows best

22 ٍRabi'ul Awwal 1441/ 20 November 2019

Answer last updated on:
20th November 2019
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Ulamaa ID 04
Location: London