Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
You must explain\relay your feelings to your father with wisdom what transpired. It is better to be straight forward now rather than live with this for the rest of your life. Otherwise It would not be fair on you, or your fiance.
adapted Suggestion from Ulamaa ID 02
If you are unable to approach your father, perhaps you could approach someone sympathetic such as your mother or other senior figures who may speak on your behalf to your father.
Wa Alaykumussalaam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh
Answer last updated on:
15th June 2006
Ulamaa ID 03