Urgent- OCD and waswasah

Asalamualaikum I’m suffering from extreme ocd and waswasah about divorce and just wanna confirm nothing happened in these instances. Me and my wife went out and whilst we were out she was being very rude and arguing about my sister because my sister has been very rude to her. I said to her that we are going home because she keeps arguing whilst we have come out on this trip. She was upset at me because she thought I was siding with my sister by asking her to not argue with me about it.i think she then kept threatening take to her in the car to her parents house and about divorce which I kept refusing. She kept on arguing with me so I said for us to go to the car just so we can go home because she keeps arguing. I didn’t intend anything by this but I got ocd by saying to go to the car that I’m responded to her threats about taking her in car and divorce even though didn’t intend anything like that at all. does that do anything? My mum and dad got a divorce and I have never met my dad. So I was telling my wife about this and saying to her how “if I had a son” and was gonna simply say that I would meet him at least once not intending anything by saying that but then I got ocd thinking I’m presenting a hypothetical scenario of having a son like my mum but mum and dad got a divorce, so I got scared that would be part of the hypothetical scenario. I got worried and added about a “and he got adopted and we don’t meet him we would meet him” does that do anything? My shoe laces always come untied so I got annoyed and said “of course” and then the ocd thought in my head came that every time it comes untied it means divorce, and as the thought came I think said “ of course” with no intention, and got confused that I’m saying it to the thought in my head or annoyance over the shoelace but I’m not sure what to, if hypothetically a man out loud says “of course” to the thought about divorce does that do anything. When I get waswasah say “no” or “breathe” to calm the waswasah but sometime I don’t know but feel as if I’m saying “do” or “dreathe” I think maybe cause the word “divorce” is always giving me ocd. What worries me is my potential mispronouncing starts with the same letter as “divorce” Does this do anything? And does my saying “no” multiple times to see if it sounds like “do” and does potentially accidentally pronouncing and repeating “do” does that do anything? May Allah reward you