I brought up divorce out of anger as a women

Asalamo alkuim, I been married for a year and half. In the beginning of our marriage my husband would go to work until 5 then go to his family house until 8. Also would keep me at the house while he is with his family hanging out. Every time I would discuss him what he has he would tell me a wife doesn’t need to know her husbands whereabouts. He would yell at me for his sisters in front of them because I was changing to go out with them and they are always late when we go out. His sister said something to hurt me and he made me call them, so I make things right. His family calls him 10 times if he doesn’t answer which usually we are inmates during the times he doesn’t answer. He thinks something has happened so he stops, but nothing has happened. Recently we have been arguing so much because he would get mad out of nowhere and he doesn’t keep his promise that we had before we got married such as living with parents and communicating everything with each other before anyone else. His family has been saying bad things about me and he doesn’t defend me. I feel like when I go to his family they don’t talk to me and leave out of everything. My husband lectures me in front of them. I do raise my voice sometimes because I get very anger because I feel like I moved across the country and my husband doesn’t talk to me and puts last for everything. We had a big fight because he kept getting mad at out of nowhere at me, so I said I wanted a divorce out of anger. He got mad and left. My dad convinced to comeback home and I regretted right away. My husband has said before that he can’t keep being in this marriage and thinks we are still young and we can move on. Which means divorce but when I said he got mad and he has not talked to me for two weeks. He said he will never forgive or forget for what I have said. I have been very patient and haven’t raised my voice or argued with him. I don’t what to do to bring my husband back to me. Nothing I do is right. He doesn’t talk to me and doesn’t joke with me. What should I do to have my husband to forgive me for what I have said?