Israa Zaini
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Assalam alaikum,
I am a Shia woman, married to a Sunni Hanafi man. Our marriage has always been troubled. I left his home and live in a separate house. Since I left we have tried to reconcile. During that time he has pronounced the word talaaq twice and took it back within 90 days. Then 6 months ago we had a fight at his house in the middle of the night. I wanted to leave and he said: if you leave, you have the third talaaq. He didn’t expect me to leave but I did. When he realized I was gone he panicked but found a source online that said that since the talaaq was conditional he could take back the condition and the talaaq would not be valid. I can not find any sources about conditional talaaq that applies to our situation. In my perspective he pronounced the talaaq three times, so I consider myself divorce. He however is convinced the talaaq is not valid and we are still marries. Therefore my question, are we divorced or not?
Thank you in advance for answering my question.
Kind regards,
Israa Zaini