Health & Medicine

Hello. This may be a bit long but it’s super personal and it’s affected me throughout a great portion of my life. I’ve never spilled my guts like this before so it’s coming out all at once. I’d appreciate it if you read the whole thing and go through what I went through with me. I’ve had to build up the courage to even make this post.

Ever since I was around 13 when I hit puberty my nose got bigger. A lot bigger. I never cared until I got taunted for it. Now I care a lot. Sometimes when I meet new people after we get close enough to trash talk or friendly banter they ALWAYS comment about my nose. It would be easier to name the friends that didn’t comment on how big my nose is since they would probably be 2 or 3 idk. But I know that the majority of my friends comment about it.

I use the word “comment” to sugarcoat the situation but it was nothing short of humiliation. My aunts make a comment about it almost every week. Last time I showed my aunt a video of my self doing something and she said “I didn’t pay attention to the video I was just looking at your nose”. My own mother. Yes my MOTHER makes fun of my nose. I brush it off like I don’t cry myself to sleep every once in a while about it.

I’m a man. Sure I’m a young man but I hardly cry. I don’t remember the last time I cried but I guarantee you it was due to the humiliation I was getting. I had hardly anyone to vent about this to, not even my mother as she is a major source of my insecurity. I showed her a picture of my self once and she said “it’s mostly a picture of a nose”.

I don’t smile in pictures or laugh in front of others without covering my face since that makes my nose larger and others will switch to laughing at my nose. It’s taking away the fundamentals of my social life. Laughing and smiling. I want anyone reading this to thank allah that they can smile without feeling grossly insecure about it.

I used to have acne so I got on accutane which is a medication that helps get rid of acne but as a side effect it also makes your nose smaller. I got excited when I found this out. I took it for one month and it kind of did get a bit smaller. Even my aunt which takes makes fun of me almost weekly said that it got a bit smaller. I was over the moon. UNTIL I went to do a blood test the next week and found out that my liver enzymes got dangerously high and I need to get off this medication. My nose got big again and the mockery started all over. It was a false hope which in a way was worse than no hope at all as I got used to being hopeless about it. It was a spit in my face. Nothing short of it. I still remember my reaction at the doctors office, I remember her exact words, I even remover what the room smelled like. I can’t forget that day when I was told that I had to get off of the medication. It was horrible and it was all I thought about during long drives home for a month straight. The doctor’s words came out so causally like it didn’t matter that I just got my only hope ripped away from me. It’s like giving a blind man the ability to see but only for 1 day. Juuuussst to let him know what he’s missing out on. It still taunts me to this day but thankfully not nearly as much.

Eh. Why should I bore you with more and more situations. All you should know is that it’s definitely abnormally large. I mean, it better be nothing short of abnormal if that many people taunt me about it.

I always heard that if something is abnormal in your body you can change it. Sure my nose isn’t crooked or with one nostril but it sure is abnormally large.

Is it permissible for someone like me to do a nose job?

Asalamalaykum

Ramadan Mubarak,

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AOA
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Assalamu alaykum,

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ASW,

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Jzk

As Salam ualaikum,
Will it be halal or Haram to take the upcoming COVID-19​ vaccine? If it is Haram to take and become a mandatory what do we do living here in the West? Jazakallahu khairan

‎أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ

‎بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيم

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

If a muslim human ,
who has muslim friends among the jinn,

ask the jinn to help humans afflicted with black magic or other illnesses is it considered haram and unlawful?

The person in question always tells people shifa comes from Allah and they can only help but not guarantee success. He also advises people to seek medical treatment from doctors since black magic also produces physical illnesses.


How does a person distinguish between true ruqyah and evil charlatans?

What are some alarming things to help distinguish between black magicians and muslim people and jinns who genuinely help people afflicted with black magic and illnesses?

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
‎أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ

‎بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيم

Aselamualykum
My 4 month daughter cries when i read Qur'an for her it starts this months is this normal plese help me.
Tank you
Jezakumulah

With due respect I would like to inform that I have been suffering from black magic since last 7 years and there has been no sign of improvement have undergone lot of maulvi and Dr treatment . I would like to inform that I have got engaged many times but everytime it gets fixed it is broken it would be a great honour if you would suggest some dua

Recently I have been diagnosed with coronary artery vasospasm, it causes me immense depression and anxiety;there is no cure.I would like to know if there are particular surahs or duas I can recite on myself as a form of ruqya.

AssalamoAlaikum. My fiance I got engaged in 2019 and we were living happily but after some time there was sudden change in my fiance as he gets angry on small things too much . When he talks on phone he gets too much angry that he said many times I will leave you but we meet in person he is totally opposite person then he say I can't leave you. Sometimes he doesn't know what he is saying. According to her mother she sees some symptons of black magic as he fights with his family too on small things and he had accidents almost every month . Sometimes he slips from bike sometimes he see a black man with no face on road and that time his car hit on the foot path and that black man disappears in the garbage .

We also do sadqah but no change in his behavior. He has too much anger issues from past year.
Kindly let me know that is this black magic? If yes then how can I remove it from being at my home? I will be very thankful if you will answer as we both are in very tension
JazakAllah khair

Assalaamu alaikum..

pls suggest ruqyah to remove magic ,evil spirits ,devil etc if someone gets affected means...

i have an apartment which i don't use..can i give this to rent and fix a monthly income of this..is it halal like getting fixed rent every month?

pls reply its urgent..

May ALLAAH reward for the fabulous work you are doing...AAMEEN

Jazakallaahu khairaan

Asalam alaikum
If some one having headache
People in my country say
Hold your head and write abjad ابجد on it the pain will disappear
And they say its a word from quran …

AsalamAliukum! I want to ask a question. It is common in Pakistan and India that any disease can be cured by reciting Surah Rahman. I have searched for hadith or any authentic reference, but I am not able to find any authentic source. So I want to know that can Surah Rahman cure diseases/illnesses?
Jazak Allah

I found an amulet in my home. It was written with zafraan"s water. I want to show it to you and take help from you that what is written in it.I have picture of amulet. Kindly resolve my problem by looking it.

Bismillah Hirahma Niraheem
Assalam aleykum wa rahmtullahi wa barakatohu
Dear brother....
I pray to Allah SWT that he keeps you in the best of health and Iman and always keeps you in his protection ameen...

My question is to you can a Muslim wear a tawiz and cure nazar by burning chillies..

Please reply back with aunthencity where both these acts took place during the prophet Muhammad peace be upon him time and references from the Quran and the hadith if possible...

Jazakallah kher....

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Thx a lot

Assalamualeykum wrwb,
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