We cant treat both wife's equally so 1 should suffice. And since the divorce, life has changed for the better, Alhumdulillah.
Now I spend more time with my wife and kids than I did with my "so-called" second wife. To my surprise (well I shouldn't be) life feels so much more nicer and relaxing. Its like time has so much Barakah in it all of a sudden, Alhumdulillah.
How did I do it?
I switched off my emails from syncing the moment I get home and only check it if and when its appropriate. I put my phone away from the moment I walk into the house. I've been doing this for just over a week as an experiment, and Alhumdulillah, the divorce from the mobile has worked wonders, SubhanAllah.
Get Barakah in your time too, stay "disconnected" not connected, get off line, put the phone away, put the laptop away, put the tablet away, put the computer away. Just get rid of all your toys and gadgets and spend that time with your family and appreciate what Allah has given you.
I appreciate others have also posted things related to this, but I thought I'd do it too but in my own words and experience.
So if you see me less around (I'm trying) then its because I'm either busy with work or I'm having a good time with my first family (second family being MuftiSays)
