I am on public record for saying this to both you and Sister Acacia. Here it is a lot clearer.
The Sufees of Britian will destroy your Eemaan, snatch your innocence, your dignity, your humanity and leave you mentally, psychologically and emotionally damaged goods! I know that both of you have no reason to believe me and you won’t because in your eyes I am some random guy on the Internet but the day you wake up, look yourself in the mirror and don’t recognise yourself because you have done backbiting, slander, scheming which you believed was not possible for you (to do under normal circumstances and you hate yourself for it) and you realise that you have been used by people whom you looked upto as shining examples of good Muslims, remember this post then fall into Sajdah (prostration) to Allah and make sincere dua for you to come out of the Gutter which these people would have taken you into!
And I have no problems with you sending this message to anybody whom you want because its public, anyways.
What your cultural (understanding) or perceived notions think of as "Sunnah" or "Islam" or "way of Deobandees" may not be any of them but you won't come to that realisation easily.
Your brother in Islam.
P.S: Everyone else...sooner or later everyone will come to know what the intoxication of power does to people and when you challenge Authority of people they fight back with a vengence, that is precisely why Jews of Madina rejected Nabi (Sallallaho Alaihe Wassallam) not because they didn't know that he was a Prophet but because their power and control over the lives of others would have ended!
This is a better forum then SF in the sense that there is NO SECRECY, NO SLANDER, NO BEHIND THE SCENE PLANNING everything is in the open. People don't chat on emails, WhatsApp or whatever and scheme things.
SF "apparently" had much better control on forum interaction but what it created is an underground Black Market of slander, I am not saying that it was deliberate (it wasn't) but those are the facts. Always take people's pathways to slander and backbiting away from them and let them bicker in public. They may argue, fight, bicker but eventually the damage won't be as severe as it would be if you push all the scheming underground!
Aapa,
In my opinion you don't need to meet or communicate with a person directly. Allah (SWT) blesses people of Eemaan with Firasah and you can make judgement calls based on it. What you can't do is accuse and slander people based on Firasah but merely warn.
Insha'Allah, you be my witness on the day of judgement in front of Allah (SWT) that I have publicly and clearly warned these Sisters (and everyone else) of the looming dangers. When these Sisters end up flat on their faces they won't be able to say that nobody warned them.
Let me give you an example of how good people vs those with lack of knowledge deal with issues.
I used to know a brother who did Ruqya for Jinns etc and he was ill so I was taking him to a patient once. He said that a sincere physician is looking for the patient to be cured and have a normal life and not satisfay his ego trips so:
A ego filled maniac will block all access of the patient to everyone else and say "My way or the highway". In fact the sign of an ego maniac is that they will get angry at you for using your brain OR seeking second opinions (without discussing or explaining the problem), just on principle because it goes against their ego that you second guessed their advice.
One of the most fearsome Cricket Fast Bowlers Dennis Lillee had a stress fracture in the 1970's. Medical science of the day told him that he would never be able to bowl again and he had access to the best of science at that time.
He (himself) broke down components of his bowling action (the runup, stride, jump, follow through), figured out the damage to his body, modified his action and became successfull again.
Nothing fancy, just using brains!
There are many examples like this.
This cannot be undone and I am sure it will be greatly appreciated.
Please wait...
