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#46 [Permalink] Posted on 23rd January 2014 18:17

Is there a sister's group here?

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#47 [Permalink] Posted on 23rd January 2014 18:43

Yup, there is.

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#48 [Permalink] Posted on 23rd January 2014 18:48

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Salam,

Yes there is a sisters group, You will need to subscribe to the group using the 'usergroups' link from the right hand side menu.
You can then be added to the group Insha Allah.

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#49 [Permalink] Posted on 23rd January 2014 18:53

Errm but just to let you know, its not entirely sisters ONLY unfortunately. The male admins have access. I guess they think we'll get dangerous or something if we're left on our own........ sad state of affairs, really - extremely sad :( please make dua they can leave nicely without us even having to ask them. Like Allah must just put it in their hearts and they must leave. Ameen.

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#50 [Permalink] Posted on 23rd January 2014 18:57

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Thanks for the instructions I've subscribed, but it's showing as pending. I'll wait Inshaallah.

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#51 [Permalink] Posted on 23rd January 2014 18:59

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Sorry sister I don't understand your post, I wouldve thought it's good for admins to keep check on posts.

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#52 [Permalink] Posted on 23rd January 2014 19:03

Don't worry sister, the section is entirely for you, below is a few notes from admin for your information.

Also note that if you make a post or a major edit, then authorizers will see it.

If one of the brother authorizer happens to come across it, then inshaAllah, it will be ignored as much as possible, for this reason please do not feel that your posts are not going to be sorted. InshaAllah, a sister will continue with reading the post and authorizing it. However, if it is a small edit then by all means, we will quickly glimpse through it and give it the all clear inshaAllah.

Same goes for PMs between sister if they need authorizing.

Hope that clears the air.

Yasin wrote:

1. I am not making it visible to admins because I want to read what goes on or 'spy'
2. They need to realise that subject lines are visible and when a post needs authorising it's still visible
3. I barely visit public forums as it is let alone private groups (due to site work etc)
4. If I didn't have access I wouldn't be the site admin. If you want it 100% private you should create your own private forum on a domain/hosting your own
5. Authorisers wouldn't be authorisers if they can't see what they're authorising

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#53 [Permalink] Posted on 23rd January 2014 19:03

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#54 [Permalink] Posted on 23rd January 2014 19:04

I feel the exact same way, so long as its females.

But really, its ok. They were very decent and told us from before that they have to have access, so its not like we didnt know. Still dua can change taqdeer and i'm making dua that the sis group can somehow become sisters ONLY.... insha'Allah!

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#55 [Permalink] Posted on 23rd January 2014 19:09

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There should be no need for that as Maulana said, you can start your own forums for that.

Honesty is the always the best policy. Admin has full access to everything, so this option is not possible.

I too will make dua that there isn't a full sisters section on MuftiSays. Because I'm sure, much valuable work will remain hidden from the rest of the world.

I'm sorry sister.

Dua can change taqdeer, that's true, in fact I have a whole thread based on it. But that dua inshaAllah will be allocated elsewhere.

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#56 [Permalink] Posted on 23rd January 2014 19:10

Br abu mohammed jazaakallah 4 your posts.

So just to understand this better - there's actually a very slim chance that any male admin will see what we post in the sisters group?

Edit: Btw i doubt anyone will lose out on benefiting from us if there's a sisters group (unless they want priceless advise about which handbag to buy and how to decorate cakes etc.).

Trust me, all the saint caps come off when its sisters only. That's why it needs to be sisters only. All the same, i'll make dua that your dua wins mine if that's best.

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#57 [Permalink] Posted on 23rd January 2014 19:38

I'm an expert in handbags, so you'll have to find something else.

Before we get told to remain in topic, you should start a new thread on handbags, then I can really reply and expose what really goes on.

I've spent hundreds on handbags for my wife, so I know what it feels like being on the other end.

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#58 [Permalink] Posted on 28th January 2020 03:39

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How do I get access to this area?
All the links in the thread (other than the sisters group link, which I didn't try) led me to a 404 Error.

Do I need a certain rep, or a certain account age?

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#59 [Permalink] Posted on 28th January 2020 08:35

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You don't need anything but permission and access either by subscription or being added manually.

However, since you are new to forum and more importantly, to Islam, I personally will not be adding you there.

The simple reason is for you to reflect on the good and stay away from time wasting.

You have much to learn and adopt to and I wouldn't want to be the one responsible for taking that away from you.

Do you recall your recent post on seeking good brotherhood and sisterhood on this forum. Do you recall my analogy of the cafe with opposing sports fans. Well. This is worse than that. Certain discussions will make you feel like the cafe is in a curfew or riots have broken out, it's carnage and not policed in there it's an open prison. :)

So for that reason, I, as the moderator of that section will not add you there. I don't want to be responsible for wasting your time with bickering.

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