Etiquettes While Meeting - Milne Kay Adaab

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#1 [Permalink] Posted on 21st July 2015 19:02

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Rasulullah sallallaho alaihe wasallam taught us complete code of life.
Many people think that tasawwuf and tazkiya is just Zikr, but this is not correct. Actually tasawwuf is the casting of our complete life according to the sunnahs of Rasoolullah sallallaho alaihe wasallam. Hazrat Mujaddid Alif Saani RhA said that the greatest mujahida I have found is in the following of Sunnahs of Rasoolullah sallallaho alaihe wasallam. This is because, doing something according to Sunnah once or twice isn't difficult but consistency is something that is difficult to achieve....
Mufti Tariq Masood db, in this ramazan, delivered 3 to 4 minutes daily lectures on ettiquete we can learn from the life of Rasulullah sallallaho alaihe wasallam. I have found these lectures very beneficial. Alhamdulillah.
One of them, I have shared here. To access all those click here

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#2 [Permalink] Posted on 21st July 2015 20:40

How great were His (sallallaho alaihe wasallam) akhlaaq.... subhanAllah........
Read this Hadith and keep sending salutations on the best of Manking..... Indeed best in whole universe after Allah JJ..... Syyiduna wa sanaduna wa nabiyyuna wa mawlana Muhammad Rasoolullah sallallaho alaihe wasallam.

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'Amr ibnul 'Aas Radiyallahu 'Anhu reports:
"(Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam gave attention, spoke and showed love to the worst person of a nation. So that, the person may feel he is being given special attention). He used to give attention, and spoke to me also in a manner, that I began to feel that I was the best among the community. (Therefore one day) I asked: 'O Messenger of Allah, am I better or is Abubakr better?' He replied: 'Abubakr'. I then asked: 'Am I better, or 'Umar?' He replied. "Umar'. I asked: 'Am I better or 'Uthmaan?' He replied: 'Uthmaan'. When I asked him these questions, Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam told me the truth. (He did not tell me I was better to keep me happy. Afterwards I felt ashamed of myself on this deed). I felt I should not have asked such a question".

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#3 [Permalink] Posted on 21st July 2015 22:17

Translation attempt:

Among the blessed habits of RasuÌ„lullaÌ„h (ØµÙ„Ù‰ Ø§Ù„Ù„Ù‡ Ø¹Ù„ÙŠÙ‡ ÙˆØ³Ù„Ù…), one habit was that when he (ØµÙ„Ù‰ Ø§Ù„Ù„Ù‡ Ø¹Ù„ÙŠÙ‡ ÙˆØ³Ù„Ù…) would talk to someone, he would turn his face completely towards that person and give him complete attention. After that, NabiÌ„ (ØµÙ„Ù‰ Ø§Ù„Ù„Ù‡ Ø¹Ù„ÙŠÙ‡ ÙˆØ³Ù„Ù…) would converse with him.

It comes in a HÌ£adiÌ„th that when he would make musÌ£aÌ„fahÌ£ah (shake hands) with someone, then until that person would not himself pull his hand away, NabiÌ„ (ØµÙ„Ù‰ Ø§Ù„Ù„Ù‡ Ø¹Ù„ÙŠÙ‡ ÙˆØ³Ù„Ù…) also did not pull back his own hand. This is also one the best examples of the character (akhlaÌ„q) of NabiÌ„ (ØµÙ„Ù‰ Ø§Ù„Ù„Ù‡ Ø¹Ù„ÙŠÙ‡ ÙˆØ³Ù„Ù…).

Many people, while conversing with someone, do so with such carelessness regarding the direction one faces that the person in front is discomforted, [thinking] that this person is not paying attention to me. See in the doctors, go and sit with a doctor. Before even listening to you complete what you wanted to say, he begins writing the prescription. Itâ€™s possible that heâ€™s writing it correctlyâ€”he understood from your signs and symptoms what illness you haveâ€”but the doctor should give the patient a little attention so that this has a psychological effect on the patient, [thinking] that this individual is paying attention to me; I came to this person and am also paying him for his services, so he is paying attention to me.

When a person goes to an Ê¿AÌ„lim or MuftiÌ„ to ask a question, then it is the demand from the manners of NabiÌ„ (ØµÙ„Ù‰ Ø§Ù„Ù„Ù‡ Ø¹Ù„ÙŠÙ‡ ÙˆØ³Ù„Ù…) that he [the scholar] gives complete attention to him [the questioner]. If there is no time, then [the latter] should first be told, â€œI canâ€™t meet right now.â€ But when [already] meeting someone, complete attention should be given to what he has to say.

If youâ€™re going to meet someoneâ€¦ if an employee comes to an officer with a recommendation to say something, then it is the responsibility of that officer to completely face him and give him complete attention. To look with â€œcrooked eyesâ€â€”facing that direction and you are feebly turning [only] your eyes hereâ€”this is the sign of being an arrogant person. In the QurÊ¾aÌ„n-e-MajiÌ„d, regarding a ruling related to this matter, HÌ£adÌ£rat LuqmaÌ„n (Ø¹Ù„ÙŠÙ‡ Ø§Ù„Ø³Ù„Ø§Ù…) advised his son: Â«ÙˆÙŽÙ„ÙŽØ§ ØªÙØµÙŽØ¹Ù‘ÙØ±Ù’ Ø®ÙŽØ¯Ù‘ÙŽÙƒÙŽ Ù„ÙÙ„Ù†Ù‘ÙŽØ§Ø³ÙÂ». That is, â€œDo not turn your cheek [in contempt] toward peopleâ€ [QurÊ¾aÌ„n 31:18]. So this is against tawaÌ„dÌ£uÊ¿ (humility), this is takabbur (arrogance), AllaÌ„h does not like this quality.

Who can be greater than NabiÌ„ (ØµÙ„Ù‰ Ø§Ù„Ù„Ù‡ Ø¹Ù„ÙŠÙ‡ ÙˆØ³Ù„Ù…) in all of existence, after AllaÌ„h? But even NabiÌ„ (ØµÙ„Ù‰ Ø§Ù„Ù„Ù‡ Ø¹Ù„ÙŠÙ‡ ÙˆØ³Ù„Ù…) gave his full attention [to someone while meeting]. And the greatest is AllaÌ„h. It comes in a HÌ£adiÌ„th (more or less) that when someone makes duÊ¿aÌ„Ê¾ to AllaÌ„h, AllaÌ„h gives him complete attention. AllaÌ„h is not careless in giving someone attention. Yes, if someone asks with a fake [showing off] heart, i.e. his attention is not toward AllaÌ„h, and his attention is somewhere else while asking from AllaÌ„h, then AllaÌ„h does not give him attention because he himself is not doing so, so why should AllaÌ„h do so? AllaÌ„h is al-GhaniÌ„ [The Rich, The Independent One].

So this matter should be dealt with very carefully and this Sunnah should also be made to be promoted, that when conversing with someone, it is done with full attention. If someone else begins talking, he should be told, â€œBrother, please let me listen to this [other] one first. In a single moment a human cannot give [adequate] attention to two people. Otherwise, neither will he be given attention, and nor will you.â€

So this is seen often in doctors. First they write the prescription and then they listen to the patient. So doctors should be a little careful in this matter. There can be a psychological effect on the individual.

May AllaÌ„h grant us all success in practicing this.

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