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#16 [Permalink] Posted on 5th January 2023 09:35
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Why potential bride.

You need a pious bride, one qaazi, two witnesses, valima for 10 people, a roof for you to live. Done. And it is so easy. You are eyeing a POTENTIAL BRIDE. So you have to sacrifice.

There hundreds of families waiting for a young man like you, meet them.
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#17 [Permalink] Posted on 5th January 2023 09:49
By potential I meant bride to be.

The bride has a family. They have difficulty (and it is only logical) trusting a stranger like me saying, "I am a practising Muslim fit for your girl. But my parents won't be involved as they ain't interested in my marriage."

Currently one matche's sister said she will consult her parents, but silence from thier side for several days...

Why would they give their girl to a stranger whose family doesn't support his marriage, especially the mother, and they would fear them being offensive to the bride because the marriage took place without parent's involvement, which they might fear having legal complications, at worse. After all the boy said they aren't deendar.

Though this is not the case with me; my parents just don't get involved. I am confident that once I marry, they will love thier pious daughter in-law like they love me, insha'Allah.

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#18 [Permalink] Posted on 5th January 2023 09:57
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You need a pious bride, you will get many

You need a selected bride... you have to suffer.
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#19 [Permalink] Posted on 5th January 2023 10:25
Some ask for my mother's contact.

Think what impression goes when she doesn't talk.

Where's my fault in that?
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#20 [Permalink] Posted on 5th January 2023 16:52
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Ask Allah. Tahjjud, Salaatul Haajah. Without faith, you have and will always have nothing.
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