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#1 [Permalink] Posted on 31st May 2014 12:51
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Living in today's world there have been many many changes in society, things that were taboo yesterday have become the norm. Times are changing fast and sometimes it becomes tiresome and sometimes it causes one to have a 'reality check', as to exactly where all this stuff is leading to.

For a Muslim father/parents, girls are precious and are his honour, he will do his best to give them the best upbringing according to Islamic values and prepare them to be good wives and mothers. But society has changed and many changes have taken place, we live today in a sexual society, any one by the age of 15 who is still a virgin is probably a hidden lesbian (someone attracted to the same sex) or simply put a weirdo and does not fit in society. Many such changes have taken place and are taking place as we speak.


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Yesterday on the news they mentioned about dens and houses in Newcastle where vulnerable young people were taken by older men who were then drugged and raped. It's getting worser and worser day by day. Girls are no longer safe wherever you go, I know many brothers who refuse to send their girls to mixed secondary schools



Lets use this thread to discuss the issues and the solutions for them from an Islamic perspective.

So how do you protect your young ones and what measures have you in place to do so ?

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#2 [Permalink] Posted on 3rd June 2014 11:58
UK's Muslim community, who really care about Deen, should do something practical for setting an example for Muslims by name and Kuffar. Establishing segregated schools can be a good initiative.
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#3 [Permalink] Posted on 3rd June 2014 12:36
*) Developing a healthy and friendly relatuonship with the child.
*) Making them know whats wrong and wats right.. what kinda interaction can they have with people. What is unacceptable from Relatives and what to report..
*) boundries which a stranger should not cross, and or anyone else..
*) building proper concept of Hijab in the hearts..
*) boundaries of physical relationship with a female, i.e a friend or an aunt etc
*) Not being shy in reporting when it comes to even minor abuse or violence.
*) Duas.
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