Cyber Profiling

There are two issues which need to be discussed and considered.

Writing Style and contextualisation:  Allah (SWT) has created all of us differently so we write, speak, interact and project ourselves differently. This has always been the case since the creation of Sayyidina Adam (AS) and Sayyidia Hawwa (AS). Men and women have always been different and although we look for inspiration but the Tassawuff approach of converting all of us into programmed drones and clones of our Shaykh is neither practical nor Shariah compliant. Sayyidina Fatima Bint Qays (RA) was always a head-strong, vocal personality who always spoke her mind during and after the time of Sayyidina Rasul-ullah (Sallallaho Alaihe Wassallam). Sayyida Sauda (RA) who although was tall and a physically imposing woman but she was neither vocal nor head strong. Sayyida Khadeeja (RA) was calm, collected, analytical and thought provoking while Sayyida Aisha (RA) had her own personality. Sayyidina Rasul-ullah (Sallallaho Alaihe Wassallam) unlike Modern Tassawuff didn’t try to make them clones of a specific model! The later history of Islam continues on the same trend displaying women of contrasting and varying personalities. There is no one perfect system of behaviour and neither does the Shariah tries to impose a specific behaviour pattern, rather it gives general guidelines. As Sister Acacia has stated that our names, backgrounds and writing gives away a lot about us anyways for some while some chose not to do so but it doesn't make one style better then the other as long as everyone is Shariah compliant.

As long as mankind is thriving the Creation of Allah (SWT) will shine through all of us and our various styles and tactics. And many will attracted to many (online or in real life) and I don't mean love/romance attraction but even genuine admiration and appreciation. There are a few Sisters whom I genuinly respect and admire (this isn't a love/romance admiration) but appreciation of their skills, tactics and talents.

Cyber Profiling: This is unacceptable whether done for marriage purpose or idle curiosity. It is HARAM and absolutely forbidden

[49:12] O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah ; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful.