Muslim wife who enters paradise?

Asslamo Allaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh,

What happens if a Muslim wife serves her husband and pleases him but doesn't want to be with him in Jannah, is she given a choice?

Are you 100% sure about this?

Aapa,

I am not sure about it as I havn't looked into the issue at all.  I know that if a woman has multiple husbands then Ulamah differ on the matter as to whom she will be with and some Ulamah do say that she will have a choice.

Similarly if she never marries she also may have some choice (not sure).

I am unsure when she has had only one husband and he was mean and abusive towards her. Point is fully taken that he will change but if she fulfills her Deen but doesn't dsire to be with him in Jannah? She realises that he will change but still doesn't want him?

Scholars have 3 opinions about women with more then one husband:

1. She will be with the last husband
2. She will be with the one with the best character and one who treated her best
3. She will choose between them

Woman who never married would also have a husband

Asslamo Allaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh,

My brain tells me that Islam is a religion of Modesty and Haya and if both men and women were simply left to their own devices then pious women will desire to be with Sahaba and pious men will desire to be with Sahabiyyat, and even a noble intention like so is degrading and full of blame. Those who are lax in their Deen will desire to be with someone "famous".  Shariah has stopped this so both men and women will only have companions whom they had a relationship with in this world and where they had more than one husband then only choice is given in other words she won’t have a husband out of the “pool” and he won’t have a wife out of the “allocated pool” unless special circumstances are made.

My brain also tells me that since the wife will be a billion gazillion times more beautiful and attractive then the most prettiest Hoor and the Hoor is a “TOY” who hasn’t earned anything but a Muslimah has earned Allah (SWT)’s pleasure her superiority over a  “TOY” is well established. So knowing the nature of a man he would be naturally inclined towards his own wife (in paradise) since she is superior to Hoor.

All in all, my brain can’t fathom either a man or a woman to simply “desire” someone of this world to be with because it is against Haya.

But this is just my thinking and not knowledge.as I don't know.  The topic came in my head because I knew this Muslim woman and she was very pretty so obviously when I was younger I was infatuated with her I used to make all kinds of duas. She was one of the most beautiful women I have ever known and she was practising but she was an absolute COW when it came to attitude; so even if somehow given the choice I don’t want the COW in my life in paradise! Then I thought there must be women who think the same way.