Muslims in the West: Rude, Nasty, Obnoxious, Bad-mannered

That is NOT aggressive or rude, it is HIGHLIGHTING a point.  You may not agree with the styling but it is a way of expression on forums to make a point.

I write professionally so I don’t write like so in my professional career. If you deem it to be aggressive or rude, that is a perception issue.

You see my point?

The reason for doing this on forums is because in real life or in a professional scenario, you try to understand the other person’s point of view but you disagree. When dealing with Muslims (on forums) a few things happen:

Either they don’t understand what is being said (and this goes both ways) but insist on a particular opinion

Or deliberately and obtusely insist on their point of view because correct.

Professionally, you can fully understand someone’s point and still disagree. Like you may understand the need for me to write this in a specific manner but disagree with it and that’s fine. 

At any given time, I am doing a million times so I am trying to be as precise as possible in conveying my thoughts (and of course I am human and make mistakes) but there is no rudeness from my end.

It is being direct.

Nope. Absolutely disagree.

Most Muslims (particularly Sufees) are experts on beating around the bush and not stating something directly and being to the point. Speaking in riddles is considered an art.

There is a difference between being direct and rude.

The first line in this response is being direct, there is no disrespect involved at all.

Absolutely I do and as a reaction, nothing to disagree about.

In over 25 years of personal experience in multiple continents, I have YET to a single person whose Islah has been done by Tassawuff in terms of improvement in Akhlaq. External appearances etc change by being a Tableeghi/Salafi/Barelwee etc in fact without being anything.

Most people are Kareem and from a good family so they are fine to begin with. I have YET to see a Nasty person change (and I don’t mean a killer/gangster/drug dealer turn to growing a beard and making Salah) because that is normal and routine.

The day I witness it and the Shaykh I witness it from, I will become his Mureed.

I have no doubt that Tassawuff is from the Sunnah and it is necessary. It is necessary for certain people to safeguard their Eemaan, just like for some people it is going to Darul-uloom, for some people its Tableegh, for some people its family, friends.

Whatever it takes to safeguard your Eeman but the lofty claims and what we read in books DOES NOT exist in our times. Maybe it does somewhere, somehow with someone.

I have seen plenty of bad, immoral people change and adopt the Sunnah and their lifestyles change without anywhere near Tasawwuf so that sort of change is entirely possible but if Tasawuuf is ISLAH of the INSIDE, never seen a single person.

The Sunnah of Nabi (Sallalaho Alaihe Wassallam) has unique powers and a person changes automatically, by Tassawuff I mean Adhakar and reading things thousands of times daily etc.

I am ready to take Bay't.

لا حَوْلَ وَلا قُوَّةَ إِلا بِالله