Why we can't unite with Barelwi's

A Barelwi says that one should say salaam while entering their homes, even if no one is inside, because in any case rasoolullah saww is in homes of each and everyone of us.

A Barelwi says that Allah has given complete 100% ilm of maa kaana wa maa yakoonu to rasoolullah saww.

A Barelwi says that Rasoolullah saww is watching you, and each and every thing in this world like a grain in your palm.

A Barelwi says that you can ask from such and such buzurg. Buzurg X can give you children, while Y is expert in solving your worldly affairs etc.

A Barelwi says that you may include any thing in Islam until and unless it is hasan, of courseaccording to your understanding.

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In the end a "Tableeghi Saathi" says, ok man! although these believes may be wrong, but they are facing the same qibla and read salaah the same way so no issue (with thier False Believes and Actions).

In response a third person, with no prior knowledge of deen deduces that Aqaid have no significance in Islam.

How about doing Muraqabah at the grave of the dead and receiving Faiz from the dead? I would love to hear an explanation from Deobandi Sufees without Ta’weel upon Ta’weel and caveats upon caveats.

It’s not for common people it’s for “Khawas”, ordinary people can’t understand it.

Barelwees can’t benefit from the dead but Deobandees can appear in jungles, feed people, give them direction IN PERSON etc etc etc