Black Turban wrote:
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Yes, I agree with you there. One of the reasons why I like islahi gatherings (which are done in the right way) is that the listener will realize his own faults without being exposed and thereafter not feel embarrassed or dishonored in front of people or something...
The brother who said those things about Arabs in the gathering, even though the speaker may have disagreed with him, probably should have taken him to the side after everything was over and discussed with him.