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#16 [Permalink] Posted on 20th February 2014 15:26
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Sorry, totally off topic, any idea of title and person the nasheed is by at the end of the lecture?
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#17 [Permalink] Posted on 20th February 2014 15:35
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End Nasheed: "Ya Hafiz Al Quran - Muhammad Al Muqit" (it was in the description of the YouTube Video)

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#18 [Permalink] Posted on 20th February 2014 16:22

السلام عليكم

Situations in which gheebah is permitted



What are the situations in which gheebah (backbiting or talking about others in their absence) is permitted?

Praise be to Allah.
The scholars have stated that gheebah is permitted in certain situations:

1-

Complaining. It is permissible for the one who has been wronged to complain to the ruler or judge and others who have the authority or ability to settle the score with the one who wronged him.

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Seeking help to change evil and bring the sinner back to the right path, so he may say to the one who he hopes is able to do something: "So and so is doing such and such; tell him not to do it."

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Seeking advice or a fatwa (religious ruling), by saying to the mufti (scholar), "So and so/my father/my brother has wronged me by doing such and such, does he have the right to do that? How can I solve this problem and ward off his harm from me?"

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Warning the Muslims of someone's evil, such as highlighting the weakness of some reporters or witnesses or authors. That also includes seeing someone buying faulty goods, or someone keeping company with one who is a thief or adulterer, or giving a female relative of his to such a man in marriage, and the like. You should tell them about that by way of sincere advice, not with the aim of causing harm and spreading mischief.

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If a person openly commits evil or follows bid'ah (innovation), such as drinking alcohol and seizing people's wealth unlawfully, it is permissible to speak of what he is doing openly, but it is not permissible to speak against him any other way, unless it is for another reason.

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For identification, if someone is known by a nickname such as the dim-sighted one, or the blind man or the one-eyed or the lame one, it is permissible to identify him as such, but it is haraam (impermissible) to mention that by way of belittling him, and if it is possible to identify him in some other way, that is better.

It says in Fatawa al-Lajnah al-Daimah li'l-Ifta: Speaking about a person in his absence is permissible in certain situations as indicated by shar'I Islamic legal) evidence, if there is a need for that, such as if someone consults you about arranging a marriage to him, or entering into a business partnership with him, or if someone complains to the authorities to put a stop to his wrongdoing. In that case there is nothing wrong with saying things about him that he may not like to be said, because there is an interest to be served by that. One of the scholars summed up in two lines of poetry the situations in which it is permissible to talk about a person in his absence, and said:

Criticizing is not gheebah in six (cases) - complaining, identifying, warning,

When the person is committing evil openly, when advice is sought, and when one is asking for help in removing an evil.

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And Allah knows best.

Shaikh Muhammed Bin Salih Al Munajjid (haf)

islamqa.info/en/105391
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#19 [Permalink] Posted on 20th February 2014 16:30
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#20 [Permalink] Posted on 20th February 2014 16:33

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Dr Saheb, If you beleive this to be a good/beneficial article can I rewrite it (adding references) fixing format and then post it on central-mosque.com to get around their copyright issues?

Do you endorse the general gist of this article?

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#21 [Permalink] Posted on 20th February 2014 16:46
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The Article seems very beneficial.. and bears the name of Imam Ghazzali رحمة الله عليه what more can i say.. May Allah سبحانه وتعالى fill his Qabr with Noor ..Ameen..

At the end u may also add some anecdotes from our Mashaikh of Deoband.. just yesterday i was reading a Book called Majalis e Hasanah on the Majalis of Mufakkir e Islam Hazrat Maulana Syed Abul Hasan Ali sahab Nadwi رحمة الله عليه. it gave a beautiful account of what Hazrat رحمة الله عليه did in such circumstances.. shall send the scans to u إن شاء الله

wa Assalam..
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#22 [Permalink] Posted on 30th April 2014 12:21
was there a followup on rewriting the article?
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#23 [Permalink] Posted on 30th April 2014 12:22
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I got 2 pages from Dr Saheb and not the whole book and couldn't find the book on the net.
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#24 [Permalink] Posted on 30th April 2014 12:26
ok jazakallah

it would be a great service if this can be completed, much confusion regarding this topic which effects all daily
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#25 [Permalink] Posted on 30th April 2014 12:57
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Did u get through with the copyright issues for the blog..
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#26 [Permalink] Posted on 30th April 2014 13:07
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Sorry Dr Saheb? I didn't get that? Which Copyright?
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#27 [Permalink] Posted on 30th April 2014 17:28
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On post 20 u spoke about rewriting the article and getting through with copyright issues.. that article on sunnipath required permission to copy..
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#28 [Permalink] Posted on 1st May 2014 17:24
So, if someone can clarify:

1) If you're speaking about the actions of someone who has upset you with someone, but are not insulting the individual - this is still sinful?

2) Does it make a difference whether it's a Muslim or not?

3) What if it's someone like Pharoah or Abu Jahal?
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#29 [Permalink] Posted on 1st May 2014 20:27
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If I can get the right pages from you I may not be in need of Sunnipath and I will modify it anyways...
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#30 [Permalink] Posted on 1st May 2014 20:30
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You weren't insulting him you were narrating facts about a true incident. If you have some issues with the conscious approach the person, narrate the incident and seek forgiveness.

However, you should clearly tell him in no uncertain terms why you don't like to be addressed by your Kaafir name and that isn't a joke and you should also make it clear that you will approach Management about harassment if he does it again because it is harassment. Say that the reason you will approach Management is because Islam (and common courtesy) demands that he doesn't abuse you but because he is neither listening to Islam nor reason so you will be left with no choice but to get him officially reprimanded.

He is leaving you no choice but to make him STOP!
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