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Mothers Day - an historical overview and the scholars� rulings on this holiday

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#16 [Permalink] Posted on 14th March 2012 10:59
5. Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-'Uthaymeen (رحمة اللہ علیه) was asked about the ruling on celebrating so-called Mother's Day. He replied:


All festivals that go against the festivals that are prescribed in Islam are bid'ahs and innovations that were not known at the time of the righteous salaf, and they may have come from the non-Muslims, in which case as well as being innovations they also entail imitating the enemies of Allaah. The Islamic festivals are well known to the Muslims, namely Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha, and the weekly festival (Jumu'ah or Friday).

There are no other festivals in Islam apart from these three. All festivals which have been introduced apart from these are to be rejected and are false according to the law of Allaah سبحانه و تعالى, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Whoever innovates something in this matter of ours (Islam) that is not part of it will have it rejected," i.e., it will be thrown back at him and will not be accepted by Allaah سبحانه و تعالى.

According to another version, "Whoever does something that is not in accordance with this matter of ours (Islam) will have it rejected." Once this is clear, it is not permissible to celebrate the holiday mentioned in the question, which is known as Mother's Day, and it is not permissible to introduce any of the symbols of that holiday such as expressing joy and happiness, giving gifts and so on. The Muslim must be proud of his religion and adhere to the limits set by Allaah سبحانه و تعالى for His slaves, without adding anything or taking anything away.

Moreover, the Muslim should not be weak and spineless, following anyone who makes noise, rather he should mould his character according to the sharee'ah of Allaah so that he will be followed, not following, and so that he will be an example, not one who follows the example of others, because the sharee'ah of Allaah - praise be to Allaah - is perfect in all ways, as Allaah سبحانه و تعالى says (interpretation of the meaning):


"This day, I have perfected your religion for you, completed My Favour upon you, and have chosen for you Islam as your religion" [al-Maa'idah 5:2]

Mothers deserve more than to be honoured on just one day of the year, rather mothers have rights over their children, who should look after them, take care of them and obey them, so long as that does not involve disobeying Allaah, at all times and in all places.


[Fataawa Islamiyyah, 1/124; Majmoo' Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn 'Uthaymeen, 2/301, 302]
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#17 [Permalink] Posted on 14th March 2012 11:03
6. Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (رحمة اللہ علیه) said, commenting on a similar topic:


From this the perfection of Islamic sharee'ah should be clear to you, and you should be able to understand some of the wisdom behind the commands of Allaah سبحانه و تعالى to His Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم to be distinct from the kuffaar and to differ from them in all ways, so that being different will become a protection against falling into evil and into the same things as other people did. If a Muslim's wife or children ask him to do any of these things, he should remind them of the festivals that are prescribed in Islam and be generous to them on those occasions so that they will no longer look for other occasions. If they do not accept that, then there is no power and no strength except with Allaah سبحانه و تعالى. Whoever upsets his family for the sake of Allaah سبحانه و تعالى, Allaah سبحانه و تعالى will make him pleased and will make them pleased. Let the wise man beware of obeying women in such matters.

In al-Saheehayn it was narrated that Usaamah ibn Zayd (رضي الله عنهما) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "I am not leaving behind any temptation that is more harmful to men than women." Most of the mischief caused to kings and states is because of obeying women.

In Saheeh al-Bukhaari it is narrated that Abu Bakrah (رضي الله عنه) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "No people will ever prosper who appoint a woman as their leader."

And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to the Mothers of the Believers (رضى الله عنهنّ), when they double checked with him concerning the issue of instructing Abu Bakr (رضي الله عنه) to lead the people in prayer, "You are (like) the companions of Prophet Yoosuf (عليه السلام)," meaning that women's nature is to keep bothering the wise man with their questions. As he said in another hadeeth: "I have never seen anyone lacking in reasoning and religious commitment and more overwhelming to a wise man than any one of you."

One of the scholars said: A man should pray to Allaah سبحانه و تعالى and try his best to reform his wife. And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Whoever imitates a people is one of them."

[Majmoo' al-Fataawa, 25/324-326]
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#18 [Permalink] Posted on 14th March 2012 11:06
7. Ml. Abdur Rahman Shareef, Student Dārul Iftā


Question:

Are muslims allowed to celebrate Birthdays, mothers day and fathers day?

Answer:

In the name of Allāh, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

Assalāmu ῾alaykum wa Rahmatullāhi Wabarakātuh

Muslims are not allowed to celebrate these occasions as this is the combination of numerous sins and are completely unlawful in the light of Shari῾a.


And Allāh Ta῾āla Knows Best
Wassalāmu ῾alaykum

Ml. Abdur Rahman Shareef,
Student Dārul Iftā

Checked and Approved by:

Mufti Ebrahim Desai
Dārul Iftā, Madrasah In῾āmiyyah


http://askimam.org/fatwa/fatwa.php?askid=d63d009fe6c3ae0d8a29e948afd0716d
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#19 [Permalink] Posted on 15th March 2012 11:45
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