Do I look fat in this? Glittery Abayas

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#16 [Permalink] Posted on 9th April 2014 21:32

Once again, bumping this thread for user "Imam Ali" as I didn't want to post in the Q&A section.

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#17 [Permalink] Posted on 9th April 2014 21:52

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Insh'Allah, I will.

Jazak'Allah.

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#18 [Permalink] Posted on 10th April 2014 03:31

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Sister, I completely agree with your opinion.

But there are two sides of this matter.

What you've said, is from a woman's perspective. You are seeing a glittery abaya, you are being attracted by it only. You don't care who is wearing it.

But as an ordinary man (having lower level of Taqwa and spiritual illness), I know, when a man sees a glittery abaya, he is being attracted by it first and then by the woman wearing it.

To sum it up, there are two kinds of attractions related to a glittery abaya:

1. A primary natural, innocent attraction towards a glittery object. Men, women, children- everyone has it. Even you'll find infants stare at glittery stuffs.

2. A secondary attraction for the inner object. This attraction is developed among men only.

I think brother Imam Ali started this thread on the basis of this phenomenon.

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#19 [Permalink] Posted on 10th April 2014 14:47

No discussions in Q&A section please. Thread locked. Additional discussions will be split or merged so you can continue discussion in the right place. Will sort later inshaAllah.

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#20 [Permalink] Posted on 10th April 2014 15:28

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In relation to above post. All discussions from glittery abayas thread split and merged here. Ws

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#21 [Permalink] Posted on 20th May 2015 19:26

Wear the lose plain dark coloured clothes - wear size 18 even if are size 8 tops. Lowering the gaze - I think is the most important!

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