Do women even ask men these questions? I have no idea?
Hijabi Sisters do wear colourful and fancy clothes so the best thing is to "ignore" the issue. The fight is in "our head"
I heard Shaykh (Maulana) Ahmed Laat Saheb (HA) in a Bayan in my youth:
زُيِّنَ لِلنَّاسِ حُبُّ ٱلشَّهَوَٲتِ مِنَ ٱلنِّسَآءِ وَٱلۡبَنِينَ وَٱلۡقَنَـٰطِيرِ ٱلۡمُقَنطَرَةِ مِنَ ٱلذَّهَبِ وَٱلۡفِضَّةِ وَٱلۡخَيۡلِ ٱلۡمُسَوَّمَةِ وَٱلۡأَنۡعَـٰمِ وَٱلۡحَرۡثِۗ ذَٲلِكَ مَتَـٰعُ ٱلۡحَيَوٰةِ ٱلدُّنۡيَاۖ وَٱللَّهُ عِندَهُ ۥ حُسۡنُ ٱلۡمَـَٔابِ
[3:14] It has been made attractive for people to love the desired things; that is, women, children, hoarded heaps of gold and silver, branded horses, cattle and tillage. That is an enjoyment of the worldly life; but with Allah lies the beauty of the final resort.
Half the time when we think that women are attractive they are NOT, Shaytaan makes them so
Over the years if you analyse women whom your gaze has fallen upon and you have considered them pretty you will realise in a cold/calculated analysis that actually they were NOT pretty at all!
I mean many women are indeed very attractive but most of them are ordinary in reality.
So as I have always said that the fight for men is in the "head", if you long after women you will physically follow...If you train your mind to "ignore women" your physical body will follow.
The whole point of Tassawuff is first winning the battle of "mind"
Then winning the battle of the "gaze"
And physical issue never occurs, Insha'Allah.
You HAVE to convince yourself in the "head", first.
Asslamo Allaikum,
If a wife is asking about her "whatever" from her husband then thats fine, isn't it?
Asslamo Allaikum,
Actually to invite the husband to look at her physical features would be a means of reward for her, I think because I don't know much about women issues...
Jazakullah Khairun
Asslamo Allaikum,
If a wife is asking about her "whatever" from her husband then thats fine, isn't it?
No objection
Asslamo Allaikum,
If a wife is asking about her "whatever" from her husband then thats fine, isn't it?
No objection
Cool...
We went to see Shaykhul-Hadeeth (Maulana) Sameerud-deen Qasmi (HA) in Manchster and a brother asked some "strange questions" about something about women so (Maulana) replied...
Sayyidina Umar (RA) answered the question for you by approaching Rasul-ullah (Sallaho Alaihe Wassallam) so the solution to your issue is to get married and try all this stuff on your wife!
I started giggling and Maulana said, "What are you giggling about?"
:-) I shut up real quick! :-)
This cannot be undone and I am sure it will be greatly appreciated.
Please wait...