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#31 [Permalink] Posted on 14th October 2013 12:11
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Salaamualaikum brother
You have a good arguement but I would recommend that you pose this to Moulana a.s. desai and post his reply on this thread.
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#32 [Permalink] Posted on 14th October 2013 12:57

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I honestly feel that students graduating from madrasah's should spend 1-3 years travelling connecting communicating with the ummah, so they get some true real world experience [tajurba], does not matter even if they have studied under the best of teachers...because until they themselves have gyaan and not rely on borrowed things - they'll keep coming up with such stuff ^

This graduating from the madrasah to the mimbar is causing tremendous harm to the ummah. Look at our own so called 'Deobandi' ulamah - after cussing Barelwis they graduated to La Madhabis, and after that they are cussing their own Deobandi colleagues..

Seems like, there will be a time when in a far off village, children unintentionally unknowingly swear, abuse, cuss and, mothers will hush them by saying:

"Wallah, since when have you begun to use such kind of language, will you grow up to become a Deobandi?!!"     

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#33 [Permalink] Posted on 14th October 2013 13:04

This post has ruffled a lot of feathers, hence I have decided that I'll email the Majlis straight up and delete all my posts on them here. Starting now, Deobandis have no rights whatsoever to accuse Barelwis & Salafis of unfair behavior.

Mods, I request you to please delete the post altogether and re-open the topic.

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#34 [Permalink] Posted on 14th October 2013 13:04

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IF there is a Scholar who is actually teaching this then other Ulamah really need to review what is being taught in our Darul-ulooms!

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Canadians don't have a sense of humour, eh?

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#35 [Permalink] Posted on 14th October 2013 13:16
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Salaamualaikum brother

Do you really mean it when you say Moulana Sab is evil? I hope not. He's a great alim and i know him personally. I know that some will disagree with him on some topics but he is a senior alim of deoband and deserves much respect.if you met him , you would agree with me inshallah .
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#36 [Permalink] Posted on 14th October 2013 13:20
Lets not discuss our Ulamah and save ourselves from sin Please.

Discuss a topic but not break these rules

Please maintain respect for each other and Ulamaa (if topic is about a scholar) by avoiding accusations and slanderous comments. Also remember that in order for criticism to be constructive, it must be channeled in the right direction. If there is any doubt in a matter, it is better to ask, clarify or to remain silent rather than to speak ill of another person.
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#37 [Permalink] Posted on 14th October 2013 14:24
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This^ This is what is going to make us irrelevant in the years to come if we don't rectify ourselves now, if we don't let go of our cult behavior. I'm no kid & no stranger to such fitnah br brooklyn, I've seen it happen, that's why I speak up. Sorry to say but people in the west though vast in knowledge lack experience at the same time.. If our Ulamah's don't condemn people like A S Desai 'Saheb's' & his likes attitude being propagated / accepted in the false disguise of being strict / harsh - then mind you its going to polarize the ummah, nay, polarize the deobandis themselves (!!) I fear his students - they are going to inculcate this, Wallah, may Allah swt save us and the ummah. Ameen. If this had been done by a barelwi or salafi ulamah, we deobandis would have been the first to shout from the rooftops - wait, don't we already do that? But everything is allowed it seems if the same is being done by a deobandi. What could be the WORSE insult to a Muslim? That he is a liar, a double agent, no, but accusing him or her to be a disbeliever, a hater of the sahabah, a munaafiq! This is what your great pious a s desai saheb does br brooklyn, so stop being a cultist and please introspect, for the sake of the Ummah, for the unity of the ummah. Please think about it. Sahabah didn't leave Hz Umar even - so take lessons. This attitude will take us down and has taken us down.
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#38 [Permalink] Posted on 14th October 2013 14:33
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Exactly! We aren't Ulama and we should leave this for the Ulama. IF they don't do anything about it, its on their heads not ours. We can warn and discuss not more than that in my opinion.

If we disagree like we did regarding the Qiblah direction from America, then we discussed it, even sent emails backwards and forwards, only to earn more respect for the named Mufti.

what we shouldn't do is speak ill behind their backs, even if they erred. Isn't this precisely what GM's do with Imam Abu Hanifah, then we find the strongest evidence for Ulama being back bitten and feel content that we spoke up about it.

Lets not let the GM's be our teachers and leave the work of the ulama to the ulama, especially in this aspect.

I don't agree with many Fatwas from the Majlis, but I maintain respect as a Muslim.
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#39 [Permalink] Posted on 14th October 2013 14:44

I don't think that Shaykh (Maulana) A.S. Desai (HA) is evil or a CIA agent but I do believe that his Fatwaas should be challenged and explained by the Ulamah in order to avoid confusion.

In this instance he has taken a statement which Ibn Abideen (Allamah) Shami (RA) a giant of the Madhab has clearly written to be without proof, he has presented it as a Hadeeth and extrapolated a certain meaning from it. His works full of half-headeeths and very few references and I did ask Hazrat (HA) as to why he doesn't reference his Fatwaas and his response is that he heard these from his Akabir.

There are many Muftees who disagree with Shaykh (Maulana) A.S. Desai (HA)'s approach and dismiss his work outright. In fact there are not that many Ulamah who actually take his Fatwaas as a standard for Academic excellence. But what we have is a bunch of laymen having a cult like following around Hazrat.

Even the most ardent (South African) Deobandees don’t regard his Fatwaas as Academically robust, they respect him for his age, his companionship and studying with the major Akabir, his Taqwa, his abstinence from doubtful matters. All of this is (Alhumdolillah) good, however these Fatwaas and writings should be challenged.

That leaves me as to why I don’t want to send an email to Hazrat (RA)? There are a few reasons:

  1. I am not a Alim (never even claimed it) and it doesn't matter how right I am Hazrat (HA) will dismiss it, Ulamah will dismiss it, layment will dismiss it so its an exercise in futility
  2. My mother is old and seriously ill with cancer and it will really hurt me to get her labelled as a woman of foul character by the “South African Mafia” because from my observation and interaction it isn’t possible to have any discussion with South African before its gets personal and hurtful and I don’t get hurtful with people and the womenfolk of their families. Academic discussions and disputes are a thing of life, you may be wrong or you may be right but when your mother, sister, daughter, wife gets dragged into these issues its painful.

Here is a longwinded and robust discussion with Shaykh (Mufti) Abdur-Rahman Limbada (HA) of UK and I sustained it because I knew that there is nowhere Hazrat will get personal or insulting...he will either set me straight or agree to disagree or if something happens I can call upon him and he will give me an opportunity to apologise.

I am extremely Sorry to say but discussions are just not possible with South African Ulamah (not all but many) and even if you make a mistake seeking an apology is also out of question.  Once you have had, you are labelled and that’s the end of the matter.

This Fatwa shouldn’t have reached MS but Ulamah (of South Africa) should have clarified it. Never been to South Africa but listening to Cii (it seems) there are women (including some female Scholars in SA) who drive.

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#40 [Permalink] Posted on 14th October 2013 14:52

Unneeded please delete.

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#41 [Permalink] Posted on 14th October 2013 15:24
Ah, I get it now. Pardon me for being naive... I see... kind of like how children fight to the death and when mom intervenes they say "we're just play-fighting hahaha."
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#42 [Permalink] Posted on 14th October 2013 17:52

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The part of him that accuses other Deo & Non Deo Ulamah's [forget the laymen] of KUFR [Nothing gets bigger than that] by citing ambigious statements or no proofs at all is EVIL EVIL EVIL. 

Not only is it EVIL - Its plain outright MISCHIEF.

Why don't people get it - This WILL cause polarization, divisions in an already divided Ummah.

You don't need to be an Aalim to get this..

And if you think I'm only doing this because he accused Ml Tariq Jameel of Kufr - then I'm not - Ml TJ is no angel that he can't commit mistakes, and if you think he has, then BRING THE PROOF'S, so that people can show that to him and get an explanation - APPLY SAME PRINCIPLE TO MANY THINGS / PEOPLE A S Desai Saheb has accused of committing Kufr.

KUFR, no less. Wallah.  

Ulamah's to handle this? 

Br Abu Mohammed or anyone else, even Br Brooklyn - can someone get me a statement of an Deobandi Aalim of SA or UK or anyone who has adviced / condemned A S Desai Saheb's behavior / actions?

All we get when we come up with this is that A S Desai Saheb is verrrrrrrrrrrrrrry pious, pious this, pious that - so what's the deal, does that give him a leeway to accuse everyone under the sun with KUFR? Speaking up only results in threads closed or deleted - THIS, believe me, THIS will only result in more opposition.   

Such behaviour, ladies and gentlemen, you will see for yourself will result in the funeral of Deoband.

Speak up for Allah's sake.

Stop being cultists. 

Is there a bigger cuss word that can be used against a Muslim than calling a KAFIR, a DISBELIEVER ?! Let me know for in India even the Hindus get offended.

And br Abu, I'm not backbiting, I'm just telling his acolytes that he is wrong.

Deobandis VS Deobandis - here we come, courtesy A S Desai Saheb.

(p.s: And people have the gall to post his fatwas and opinions here & elsewhere - and if they do they should be ready to take the heat)

“Be without fear in the face of your enemies.
Be brave and upright that God may love thee.
Speak the truth always, even if it leads to your death.
Safeguard the helpless, and do no wrong.”
 
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#43 [Permalink] Posted on 14th October 2013 18:00
There has already been a reminder on this thread. It is unfair on other members that threads have to be locked due to personal opinions that are posted which are against forum rules and etiquettes.

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#44 [Permalink] Posted on 14th October 2013 18:00
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When we can't understand a ruling of any scholar, we must:

1. Learn from the source
2. Enquire from the source or links of the source
3. Accept differences of opinion

If the above fails then:
1. Post your research and counter arguments refuting the "contents" of the subject only and nothing else
2. Have your research approved by a scholar you trust if you're not a scholar
3. If you are a scholar, add your name to it and always send a copy to the source

When the above is not done, that's when anger takes over resulting in attacking and slandering. I hope everyone is okay with this decision.

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#45 [Permalink] Posted on 26th October 2013 18:30

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