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#1 [Permalink] Posted on 24th May 2007 15:51

well this is a question that many people ask, well as i went to darul uloom london, i thought i would take this oppurtunity to answeer this question, well firstly their had been many people who have gone to islamic school and mashAllah done alot for the ummah and others have left and became drug dealers, even though they studied in the same place. well firstly i would like to say to any parent thinking of sending their child to a islamic school in this day and age, thinkning that this would be enough for the child to be a good muslim to thinka again, this is not the case how can one expect their child to became pious by getting sent to a school when their upbringing at home was not good, the first stage in the correct upbringing of a child is their home, so we shouldnt think of a islamic school as a "short cut" into giving our children the right upbringing just because we cant be bothered about doing it ourselves as this approach woulf never work no matter where u send your child.


for eg. you want clean something but the place where it returns to (i.e.the home) is flithy, unclean and resembles to islam inside it. how do you expect a child to pray salah when his parents are downstairs watching t.v.


so im not saying that you your child wont become good at a islamic scholl but if you aint doing your part as a parent then dont expect much from your child, as you aint exactly setting the best example.


a islamic school is benificial, as it open the doors of wisdom, but you have to make sure YOU have prepared your child enough to go through the doors of wisdom and retrieve its friuts,


may Allah guide the ummah of tomorrow, ameen

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#2 [Permalink] Posted on 25th May 2007 00:03
You do realise your avatar has the name 'Asma' on it?


Yes, I agree with you on the following;

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#3 [Permalink] Posted on 25th May 2007 20:40
lol, subhanallah i dint notice what it said in arabic i just got quickly got something to put up, but isnt asma also from asma wal isifaat (names and attributes) of Allah? btu ill cange it any way just incase
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#4 [Permalink] Posted on 26th May 2007 12:15
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but isnt asma also from asma wal isifaat (names and attributes) of Allah?

you are so right. did not see it from that point.
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#5 [Permalink] Posted on 28th May 2007 15:52
if anybody has any questions about islamic scholls or antthing along thse lines i would be happy to answer them, ma' aslam
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#6 [Permalink] Posted on 25th July 2007 15:17
Not trying to be rude but you spelling "Schools" as "Scholls" is probably the worse kind of advertisment for sending your child to an Islamic school.
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#7 [Permalink] Posted on 1st May 2008 10:52
Assalaamu Alaikum My three year old son is now attending a reputable Islamic School. In the last 8 months that he has attended the nursery he has learnt his daily duaas (many of which i am sad to say i didn't know myself) taking an interest in our childrens education is more than just choosing a good school it is our duty as parents to take an active part in their day to day activities. A muslim is a student for life there is always something more to learn some of us didn't have a thorough islamic education. Show an interest in their studies and be aware of their friends. Peer pressure is an immense part of the learning experience your children will be part of. The kind of friends they make will have a great influence on them. Be part of the school life by attending regular functions at the school it will give you the opportunity to get to know their teachers too. May Allah سبحانه وتعالى accept our actions in trying to keep on the straight path and continue to be our Guiding Light Ameen
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