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#46 [Permalink] Posted on 20th October 2006 23:08
I agree to SH sub musalla, cant' it be suggested to them?
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#47 [Permalink] Posted on 20th October 2006 23:09

Last night/s of ramadhan, everyone make loadsa dua, maybe the bro's might say yes. (Eid night is also a great night)


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#48 [Permalink] Posted on 20th October 2006 23:10
inshallah you make dua for me too ..see you on eid lol
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#49 [Permalink] Posted on 20th October 2006 23:16
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Last night/s of ramadhan, everyone make loadsa dua, maybe the M bro's might say yes. (Eid night is also a great night)

Lol. Insha'Allah whatever Allah wills :)
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#50 [Permalink] Posted on 20th October 2006 23:22
sorry highIy unIikeIy if wiII be anywhere eIse cept at a proper musjid. No maIjess, no next persons yard etc

Theres are NO men around in the morning at 11ish - if that was the case mufti saeed wouId have not aIIowed it either and mufti yasin wouId have advised against it aIso. I think we need to take this thinking out that women cant go near musjids mentaIty - no offence sister.

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#51 [Permalink] Posted on 20th October 2006 23:24
my duas is with the whole thing regardless inshallah it will be a means of guidence for many sisters in the area
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#52 [Permalink] Posted on 20th October 2006 23:29
erm "M bro's" ????
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#53 [Permalink] Posted on 20th October 2006 23:33
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I think we need to take this thinking out that women cant go near musjids mentaIty - no offence sister.

None taken b/c I know thats not how I feel. The prophet (saw) said "If the wife of any of you asks permission to go to the moque, do not stop her". I was just thinking in terms of alot of men being there.


Insha'Allah let us not get too carried away. If the muftis have allowed it then let us not argue over it. Look at this as a good thing and alot of good will come from it insha'Allah.


I can't wait for the whole thing to be up and running.


Duaas requested
Wassalam

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#54 [Permalink] Posted on 20th October 2006 23:37
i cant wait neither..your right if its under the guidence of ulamas who are we to say anything
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#55 [Permalink] Posted on 20th October 2006 23:43
Yes. Thats hadith is quite cIear and so is Hzt Aisha's whens she says something aIong the Iines of "if he (Prophet SAW) saw the women of our age he wouId have prevented them in going to the musjid" - this is in reference to normaI prayers not teaching and Iearning haIqa's - correct me if i'm wrong someone/admin


But yes i'm Iooking forward to this aIso very much to see my oIder daughters and neices start to gain from our IocaI aaIimah and equip them with the deeni tooIs to fight batiI/shataan/naafs.


pIease i cant stess this enough but make dua for it every day that the taIks/posts/meetings aII bears fruit and it DOES happen.

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#56 [Permalink] Posted on 20th October 2006 23:51
cant beIeive i wrote that top post especiaIIy the 1st paragraph. sincere apoIogies. i aint no aaIim just a jahiI Iiving in hackney who the HeII am i to do DIY tafseers on hadiths regardIess if i'm right or wrong. Just a fitna amonst some peopIe nowadays - sorry = make dua for me. i dont normaIIy do it.
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#57 [Permalink] Posted on 21st October 2006 00:21

Daywalk3r wrote:
erm ... bro's" ????


Meaning ....... brothers


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#58 [Permalink] Posted on 21st October 2006 06:44
yeah, sorry u guys are right regarding the kids. its just im used to taking one of my daughters in particular as she sits very well and is advanced in many aspects.


but i will respect the age restriction. besides, these classes which im sure will have a question and answer session at the end (maybe), could get too much for her. (as im sure there might be many sorts of questions).


fiqh & seerah? excellent. they are important to learn. listening to the seerah of our beloved nabi s.a.w, will just inspire us to love him more, keep him as a role model and it will make ppl understand the torments and other situations he had to take on just to spread the word.


fee isnt a problem for me.
(cant wait)

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#59 [Permalink] Posted on 21st October 2006 06:49
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-lets not get carried away with names.

- sorry, i personally like it better if we dont know which user name suits which person. otherwise, next time someone posts something, we will know who is who.

im sure there are quite a few of us from hackney, hence being familiar with names.

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#60 [Permalink] Posted on 21st October 2006 07:11
Salaam,

Just saw this topic now, alhumdulillah it's really good to see brothers and sisters trying to organise classes such as these, especially for sisters!

There's similar classes that take place in Forest Gate Masjid during the weekends, been going on for a year now & proved to be very successful.

Firstly, for timing I would say definitely mornings, maybe 10am-12pm. that way if people want to go shopping etc after they still can. Start off with either sat/sun, if there's a good turn out of sisters, and if everyone's willing then personally I think it would be best to have it both sat and sun. (You have to make some sacrifices for the Deen right?)

Secondly, you will HAVE to allow sisters to bring their children along. (There probably wont be anyone else to look after them!)

Thirdly, as Mufti Yaseen already mentioned, you should definitely charge a small amount and also pay the Alimahs teaching. This is just simply because if people know they are paying for the classes they will be more dedicated.

Fourthly, about brothers being around the masjid, I don't think it will be too much of a problem. Forest Gate Masjid doesn't have separate facilities for sisters, however because it was from 10-12 there were never any bros around as it finished well before Zohr Salah. Moreover, once it's running for a few months brothers will be aware and wont come anyway.

Fifthly, just a few suggestions for subjects to teach.... definitely Tajweed, maybe basic Arabic (e.g. Duroosul Lugatul Arabiyah), basic fiqh (e.g. bahishti Zewar), maybe a bit of hadith/tafseer.

Lastly, this is just a suggestion you can look into in the future after the classes have been running for good 6 months/more...

Try to organise monthly/bi-monthly/tri-monthly sisters programmes (talks, nesheeds, Qura'an recitaion etc) performed by the students themselves where outsiders are welcome. Would be a good way to promote the classes as well...I know....get the classes running 1st innit...just an idea as there aren't many programmes for sisters.

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