The Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) said:
The best of you is the one best to his wife. I am the best among you to his wife (Tirmidhi, Darimi).
Umm Salama reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Any woman who dies at a time when her husband is pleased with her will enter the Garden." [Riyadh as Saaliheen]
Khalaas. Now all we need is the tawfeeq to practice on this, insha Allah.
but, i just want say 'jazakillah' to the sister who brought alive this topic which could have been left reported. (muslimah, i think)
Sister shahly well said!!
"Don't you think that females not accepting who they are"
I don't agree with what you've written although you said not in a negative way towards women.
I can accept who and what my duties are, just like the rest of the sister above, I know you don't mean it to anyone directly. But you should atleast said the people with no deen. Because those who submit their selves to Allah are unlikely to question Allah authorities.
One thing women are, "Sensitive", I think that's the reason Allah has give men more power and are stronger. So if you do hit a women they will defiantly get hurt or bruised and then if you say something horrible or negative to women they will hoof and pouf for days (some).
I personal think men and women are the same when it comes to habit, acceptance etc etc. women gossip but then there are men who do the same, men can be impatience but so can women. My mum use to say "Adom (human) are never perfect" we all have faults.
See men and women are equal in one thing having fault LOL.
Ok I can believe if has been proven women forget quicker, but women are much more smarter then men that has been proven, best result in education etc.
We live in a western country so there will be this issue on 'women right'. If we muslim women are firm in our belief, no one can influence our view on the way a women should be according to Islam I studied sociology thank to them, women can drive so it not all bad.
I believe its all about faith in Allah All Mighty, if you have it you have nothing to question or object.
Lastly for Sweet16. Universal truth ,Life isn't fair weather you are a men or women the quick you accept this you be less disappointed with life.
"As this Life is a blink one an eye" your eternal and happiness (provided you pleased Allah) is the hereafter.
Sister shahly well said!!
"Don't you think that females not accepting who they are"
I don't agree with what you've written although you said not in a negative way towards women.
I can accept who and what my duties are, just like the rest of the sister above, I know you don't mean it to anyone directly. But you should atleast said the people with no deen. Because those who submit their selves to Allah are unlikely to question Allah authorities.
One thing women are, "Sensitive", I think that's the reason Allah has give men more power and are stronger. So if you do hit a women they will defiantly get hurt or bruised and then if you say something horrible or negative to women they will hoof and pouf for days (some).
I personal think men and women are the same when it comes to habit, acceptance etc etc. women gossip but then there are men who do the same, men can be impatience but so can women. My mum use to say "Adom (human) are never perfect" we all have faults.
See men and women are equal in one thing having fault LOL.
Ok I can believe if has been proven women forget quicker, but women are much more smarter then men that has been proven, best result in education etc.
We live in a western country so there will be this issue on 'women right'. If we muslim women are firm in our belief, no one can influence our view on the way a women should be according to Islam I studied sociology thank to them, women can drive so it not all bad.
I believe its all about faith in Allah All Mighty, if you have it you have nothing to question or object.
Lastly for Sweet16. Universal truth ,Life isn't fair weather you are a men or women the quick you accept this you be less disappointed with life.
"As this Life is a blink one an eye" your eternal and happiness (provided you pleased Allah) is the hereafter.
Also, sayin women are smarter than men and then the guys sayin we're smarter is just kicking off a tennis match with no net or boundaries. Women and Men both are smart and both are weak. Every person is different, every person has a different level of knowledge and power of deduction and common sense. One of the weakest students in my class would sometimes work out things at an unbelievable speed, it would shock us. The fact is, it was his thing, that doesn't make him smarter. So I'm hoping that this playground tease of we're smarter than you nanana don't start. We're better than that.
Never say life isn't fair, coz that would be unfair. It isn't a free life which makes life fair, it's wanting a free life without Allah and His Deen which makes our life unfair. And the difference between the two are determined by our own actions. So Life is fair, the sooner we accept it, the more content we will be no matter how many tears roll.
& hey, we definitely dont want a heated debate regarding gender equality.
lets just all accept, men & women both have their good & bad points. every individual is different & hold different capabilities, abilities, strength (physical/mental) etc.... it goes on....
Never say life isn't fair, coz that would be unfair. It isn't a free life which makes life fair, it's wanting a free life without Allah and His Deen which makes our life unfair. And the difference between the two are determined by our own actions. So Life is fair, the sooner we accept it, the more content we will be no matter how many tears roll.
Yasin wrote: Never say life isn't fair, coz that would be unfair. It isn't a free life which makes life fair, it's wanting a free life without Allah and His Deen which makes our life unfair. And the difference between the two are determined by our own actions. So Life is fair, the sooner we accept it, the more content we will be no matter how many tears roll.
That is something to reflect on. And what sister shahly wrote.
shahly wrote: May Allah give us all the ability to act in accordance to His will, deal justly with his creation and be thankful to Him for his infinite bounties. Aaameeen !
Ameen
sweet16, go to this website http://www.sulaimanmoola.com/Download.html go to menu and click 'BEAUTY OF A MUSLIM WOMEN' all ur questions will be answered inshallah as this speech covers it all...hope it helps you to see the wonders of islam ....even others sisters and brothers i advice you all to listen to this specific speech.
wasalam
Masha'Allah great answers from everyone. Sister mus1ma, Jazakallah for the link but I am aware of the fact that sister sweet16 doesn't have interent at home at the moment so she will not be able to listn to it just yet however, could someone summarise the answers to her questions the way sister shahly summarised the questions of sister sweet16?
Jazakallah
Wassalam
This topic has unlocked many doors; alhamdulilah!
Jazaka'Allah xmuslimahx, for bringing this back. It is amazing to see how we can all work together to help eaach other out fisabilillah.- I hope that there are many more opportunities like this to come.
May Allah give us all the taufeeq to understand Allah's deen the way it should be and may He give us the ability to stay guided along siratul mustaqeem, for only He can guide the misguided. Ameen wa thuma ameen.
The talk mus1ima posted up is v.good,please sweet 16 when you are able to get access please listen to it insha'Allah.
Ameen to all duaas.
Wassalam.
This cannot be undone and I am sure it will be greatly appreciated.
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