We adopt a humble demeanour to avoid being perceived as arrogant.
But when slightly criticized we are greatly offended
This is a sign of pride.
Prophet
said, “He who has in his heart the weight of a mustard seed of pride shall not enter Paradise.”
(Muslim 91)
Why do we get so offended or angry?
Because we deem others beneath us, that is who is he to criticize me?
This concurs with the definition of pride.
As Prophet
said, “Pride is disdaining the truth (out of self-conceit) and contempt for people.”
(Muslim 91)
