In your life, adopt etiquettes with elders, show affection towards the young, have good relations. Husband and wife have love between yourselves, respect each other. The biggest relationship of this world is not parents but husband and wife. The most blessed relationship is parents. But the most important relationship is not parents but husband and wife.
Allah started this world with husband and wife. Heaven will be initiated with husband and wife. This pair initiates life of this world and initiates life of hereafter. For people that don’t get married and die. Allah will get them married before they enter heaven based on their status.
In Satan’s court he asks everyday what have you done today? They say we did this and that, had someone steal, commit adultery, murder etc. Satan says okay but not impressed. But one devil says I created discord between husband and wife. Satan congratulates, embraces him & says this is my lieutenant.
Jabir reported that Allah’s Messenger
said: Iblis places his throne upon water; he then sends detachments (for creating dissension) ; the nearer to him in rank are those who are most notorious in creating dissension. One of them comes and says: “I did so and so.” And he says: “You have done nothing.” Then one amongst them comes and says: “I did not spare so and so until I sowed the seed of discord between a husband and a wife.” The Satan goes near him and says: “You have done well.” A’mash said: He then embraces him. (Muslim)
Enabling fight between husband and wife the fire of hatred has now spread among multiple families. Young children come to my family, and they say our parents fight lot among themselves our lives are destroyed. Husband and wife are not able to tolerate each other. Learn to tolerate each other.
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