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#1 [Permalink] Posted on 7th December 2015 09:09
Assert Yourself to the Limits


There is this theory of peak loads.

Those who go to the Gym know it.
Suppose you pick up a weight that is to the full capacity of your muscles and do minimal exercise with that.
Say three times with some gap.
Then that is all that is needed for the day.
And three times a week is sufficient.

Supose you pick up very small amount of weight and do an exercise a large number of times then it adds nothing to your muscles.

We have our relationship with Allah swt and we have the social interaction with the world.
First part was practiced in makkah and the second one in Madinah.

In the second part we have been something like the British vis-a-vis the American.

Here is what Stephen Fry has to say about it.

We Muslims have to switch to the assertive gear.
We are far too apologetic.
I think the west should be apologetic and on the back foot.

We got to be assertive at the level of peak loads.

Of course the dictum of easier said than done does apply here also but I assure my brothers and sisters that this attitude will be unproductive.

Assertion is different from aggression.
I am merely talking about verbalisation of our stand.

If the British have been acting like Mr Beans before the Americans then we ourselves have been acting like guilty ones while it is the US in particular and the west in general that are still guilty of a lot of injustice to Muslims in particular and the world in general.

I hope we can gather back our courage.

Yes, it is a matter of courage.

Just see what Shashi Tharoor is saying here to the British in their home.

Of course it is 68 years after British left and after India is a successful country from worldly point of view.
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#2 [Permalink] Posted on 7th December 2015 21:53
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Aggression alone is foolhardy and will get you killed quicker.

Muslims just need to do one thing:

Select the best Talent and let it do its Job, no more Nepotism (Shahi Imam, Hazrat Favours) etc. You will see the situation change in a very short time if Talent is rewarded and Timewasters are shown the door!
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#3 [Permalink] Posted on 8th December 2015 04:32
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I agree.

I hope you have not got the impression that I advocate any aggression. No not at all.
I am pushing for an assertive stance on our part at the academic level.

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#4 [Permalink] Posted on 10th December 2015 10:26
A Brief History of Ummah


There were crusades against Islam and Muslims.

These were thoroughly and decisively defeated by Muslims.

Then there was western colonialism of Muslims lands and decimation of a dozen Muslim empires.

The west was driven out from Muslim lands but damage has not been recuperated.

Then there was and still continues the economic neocolonialism of Muslim lands.

Muslims themselves, not all, behaving very submissive towards the west - culturally and intellectually.

The latest stage is of open aggression against Muslim countries and societies.

Iraq was completely decimate with phony reasons.
Afghanistan was marauded - with flimsy reasons.
Pakistan affected.
Syria, Egypt, Lybia and turmoil where west has its hands completely soiled.

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The question is where is the cause for confidence.

I can count a few.
(1) The west left Afghanistan without claiming a decisive victory for them.
(2) Before that we deflated USSR in Afghanistan.
(3) As a result a does of our countries simply tumbled out of USSR.
(4) Muslims as a whole are becoming very aware of their torment at western hands.
(5) We have arguments against the west in many cases - Palestine, Afghanistan, Iraq, Syria, Libya and so on.
(6) Slowly Muslims are acting with dignity about their faith.

Problems remain yet things are looking up.
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#5 [Permalink] Posted on 12th December 2015 07:44
On Distraction by Seventy Two Groups and Non-Muslims


Rasoolallah (SAW) worried that there will come a time when his Ummah will be divided into more than seventy groups.
Clearly this must have been very painful for him to accept.

What can we do about it?
Problem is solved by the next part of the narration.
Only Ahl-e-Sunnah wal Jamaa' will be the only right group.

In such a situation one should join that group.
That is what we have done.
We have come to the conclusion that Deoband explanation is the closest one to above group.

After that we have to act upon this explanation of Islam with confidence.
Perhaps no other motivation or confidence building exercise is required.

If you look at the problem from this angle then a lot of cobwebs are removed and one is left to act with utmost confidence.
After this decision there is only one point is left out - how much sacrifice you are ready to make?
Now that is a personal decision.
Decisions made on the spurt of the moment are usually the most unreliable.
So decide in advance about your level of sacrifice and you have have no one except Allah swt to check your adavance.

So, for example, if you decide that you shall spend one hour everyday doing service to Ummah.
What is there to stop you?

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The distractions here are very minimal.

Do you still need to convince yourself that the west is chronically ( something long standing is called chronic) disposed against Islam and Muslims. Is there any confusion about that? So how can they stop you from living Islam?
If you are still worried about that angle then read Orientalism by Edward Said and be done with that.
Case of RSS is a much simpler version of similar irritation. They even do not have the intellectual sophistication.

Are you still not clear that the Ghair Muqallid (Ikhwan, Jama-at-e-Islam, Ikhwanul Muslimoon, Salafi A,... Salafi Z) crowd is not the closest to Islam? If yes then please do spend you time and clarify the issue for youself so that you can come back to implement the Islam given by our Akaabir.

Are you bothered by what Barelwis say? You must be joking. Even GM have lost the argument while the grave worshippers never really had any argument. (Their arrogance is merely a reflection of the fact that they really had no argument from the word go.)
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#6 [Permalink] Posted on 17th December 2015 07:55
American Teenagers


Have you ever seen the confidence of an American, I do mean US, teenager?
There is no confidence like that.
No one has more confidence than an American teenager.
Not American adult, not US President, not European adult or teenager, not Indian teenagers, not Induan adult, not Muslim teenagers, no Muslim adult.
Why is that? What is the source of that confidence? Where does it emanate from? What factors cause that confidence?

The causes, combinely, are the following. US has, till now, the predominant position in military, financial, political, strategic, scientific and technological sectors. This translates into their national confidence and then the confidence of her citizen.

Even without reaching the US levels of military, financial, political and technological prowess we have to work on the real inherent strength of a believer - his or her status as an ambassador of Allah SWT. That is what we are - all ambassadors of Allah swt for once the last Prophet SAW left this world we have become that - carriers of the message that our beloved Prophet handed to us.

Thus the whole problem is to realize our own value in the scheme of things.
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#7 [Permalink] Posted on 17th December 2015 11:42
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#8 [Permalink] Posted on 19th December 2015 09:31
Causes of Confidence


Confidence might come with no reason at all - after all it can also be Allah swt's gift too.

Here we shall talk about confidence emanating from a cause, a reason.

Brahmins have confidence because they believe that they were born from Brahma's head.
Brahma is the Hindu god of creation.

Jewish people are confident because they think that God had chosen them.

Shia themselves have enormous confidence that they belong to the family of Rasoolallah SAW.

Americans are confident because of the unique powerful position of their country in the world.

White people are confident merely because of their skin colour.

Even amongst Muslims there are people who are confident.
Some are confident because they are Shaikh, Syed, Mughals or Pathan.
Some are confident because they are converts from Brahmins.
Some are confident because they are converts from Rajputs.

Not a single one of these confidences is justified.
Superiority is from Taqwah, fear of Allah.

We Muslims should have confidence in the fact that we have accepted the word of Allah SWT.
All of the earlier confidences are worthless before this confidence.
Unfortunately we simply do not realize this.

Why because we are not ready to indulge in the sacrifice that will ensue if we assert our confidence.
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#9 [Permalink] Posted on 19th December 2015 14:43
I think most suitable synonym of this term 'confidence' is 'superiority complex blended with haughtiness and arrogance'. If this 'confidence' is taken in positive sense then the Hitler's master race theory can also be termed as 'confidence'.

From Islamic point of view this confidence is known as asabiyah and Islam condemns asabiyah.
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#10 [Permalink] Posted on 21st December 2015 03:13
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The shades that you are mentioning, ya akhi, are certainly there.
What I am focussing upon is the positive confidence, the emotion that leads to courage.
We desperately need that.
So far we lack that crucial ingredient.
I can tell you why has it left us.
It is because of the west.
Somewhere the west left us behind in the worldly matters.
They made social, cultural, scientific, technological and hence economic, military and hence political progress.
Then they went about colonizing us.
In parallel to this they developed a theory of our inferiority.
It is what we call orientalism.
We have simply been awed by their material progress and have gone into inferiority complex.
We have to come out of it.
Even without being on par with their material progress we are already healthy enough to look into their eyes.
Hence we should get our old confidence back.

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