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#1 [Permalink] Posted on 29th June 2011 12:06
"If a husband becomes angry at his wife, he should stop and think to himself, 'How would I expect my son in law to treat my daughter if she made a mistake?

My wife is also someone's daughter and I am also someone's son-in-law. Therefore, I should control my temper and treat her appropriately.'"

Courtesy of In Shaykh's Company: a blog maintained by the students of
Shaykh Muhammad Saleem Dhorat hafizahullah www.shaykh.org

See also: Anger Management http://www.muftisays.com/forums/people-s-say/5543/anger-management.html

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#2 [Permalink] Posted on 29th June 2011 14:43
When my wife makes me angry, I don't get angry, I try to keep calm and remember the sunnah of our beloved. When I show patience, this makes her more angry. But within minutes my calmness cools her down and then I tell her, "You see, this is why woman aren't authorized to give divorce. Because if she was, all marriages would end up broken".

Allah loves the patient ones. The wife will pick this up and adapt to it too.

InshaAllah.
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#3 [Permalink] Posted on 29th June 2011 16:10
If my wife makes me angry, I just "lock the topic"
Admin functions work in real life too. Later we realise how silly the whole thing was.
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