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EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON AND FOR THE BEST

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#1 [Permalink] Posted on 2nd February 2007 09:49

The King and his friend

A story is told about a King who had a close friend that he grew up with. The friend had a habit of looking at every situation that ever occurred in his life (positive or negative) by remarking, "This is good, Allah Almighty knows best" One day the King and his friend were out on a hunting expedition. The friend would load and prepare the guns for the King. The friend had apparently done something wrong in preparing one of the guns, for after taking the gun from his friend, the King fired it and his thumb was blown off. Examining the situation the friend remarked as usual, "This is good! Allah Almighty knows best." To which the King replied, "No, this is NOT good!" and ordered his soldiers to put his friend into jail. About a year later, the King was hunting
in an area that he should have known to stay clear of. Cannibals captured the King and took him to their village. They tied his hands, stacked some wood, set up a stake and bound him to the stake. As they came near to set fire to the wood, they noticed that the King was missing a thumb. Being superstitious, they never ate anyone who was less than whole. So after untying the King, they chased him out of the village.

When the King reached his Palace, he was reminded of the event that had taken his thumb and felt remorse for his treatment of his friend. He went immediately to the jail to speak with his friend.

"You were right" the King said, "it was good that my thumb was blown off." And he proceeded to tell the friend all that had just happened. "I am very sorry for sending you to jail for so long. It was bad for me to do this." "No," his friend replied, "this is good...Allah Almighty knows best" "What do you mean, 'this is good'! How could it be good that I sent my friend to jail for a year?"

The King's friend replied: "Remember that the Almighty knows best and if I had NOT been in jail, I would have been with you on that hunting trip."

"He knows what is before them And what is behind them: And to Allah go back All questions (for decision)" Qur'an:Surah Al Hajj 22:76

Do Not Judge Things or Events by its Immediate Outcome! Almighty, the Most High, is the All-Knowledgable, the All-Knower... He chooses to show us things... but sometimes... we are not shown the wisdom behind somethings. When we are confronted by circumstances that are not very pleasing.... we are quick to say: "This is not good..." but... is it really? We might not know the purpose behind it. It might turn to be a good thing.... thus.. .when we are faced with any situation... do not be too quick to judge... always remember.... this life is a test... the good and the bad.... and there is nothing that happens for no reason... our brains are just not gifted enough to understand these reasons yet. Sometimes ... things happen to us for a reason.

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#2 [Permalink] Posted on 2nd February 2007 10:56
Alhamdolillah!
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#3 [Permalink] Posted on 2nd February 2007 11:21
Assalam,i heard this story 15 years ago & at that time i didnt realised the proper meaning. But when i engaged 2 this marrige,after few weeks i had another proppose,i was thinking that i sould marry 2 second rista,but 2 considered my family valuse i said nothing(although 2nd rista came late because they r very Very rich & at that time boy had an exam & also they knew that we know that we r waiting from the boys side).And i got married here to 1st rista,oviesly with ups&down,At that time i was sometime thinking i sould of styed near my parents & without money worries IF i would of waited for second perpose,because as time passed that boy become a millioner. BUT after 25years of happy marrige that (2nd rista 4 me) boy Very sadly died of heart attake....
AT that time it really hit me SO badly about the way I GUGED ALLAH SWT .May ALLAH forgive me,Aamin
Since then deep down in my heart i keep thanking ALLA SWT for every small 2 big things.keep thinking my husband INSAALLAH will be around with me when my boys will marry as we married our girl. AND INSAALLAH we will go older 2gether & even we INSAALLAH see our grandchildren married as well.Onistly its Very hard toput in words properly for everything. Forgive me for spells & sentenses structure. AND please pray for my boys to get marry quick ,again history reapeted with my son BUT again i am thinking ALLAH SWT KNOWS BEST ,SO dont dissapointed & put your trust Only on ALLAH SWT.AAMIN
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#4 [Permalink] Posted on 2nd February 2007 13:07
Alhamdulillah an excellent article, it is absolutely true there is nothing but khair and wisdom in everything positive and negative in our lives decreed by Allah سبحانه وتعالى .

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#5 [Permalink] Posted on 8th February 2007 23:44
We were told that story by our ustaad back when we were studying & for those who understand & enjoy urdu, trust me it sounds wicked in urdu.

whenever somebody would moan for why they couldnt have something or for any other reason like,why didnt it work out between me & that bloke? we all went through the craze of turning around & saying "JO HUWA ACHCHA HUWA AUR ALLAAH KE HUKAM SE HUWA" (whatever happened, happened for the best & happened by the will of Allaah). it really helps,try it when someone says something. it'z all naseeb!

we all cracked up laughing when we got told "BUT DNT GO TO A MAYYAT HOUSE & SAY, JO HUWA ACHCHA HUWA ALLAAH KE HUKAM SE HUWA" or they'll come beat you up! beyshak whatever happens is in ALLAAH's hands, but family members might be quite upset at that time & would prefer to be explained to in another way.

May ALLAAH give Jazaaye Khair to all my ustaad'z in this country & abroad, make them a means of hidaayat for the whole ummah & give them barkat in all there good deeds, Ameen ya rabbal aalameen!

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