Adab without knowledge and knowledge without Adab- both are detrimental for mominin.
Ibn Al-Mubarak rh.a said, “Mukhlid Ibn al-Husayn once said to me,
'‘We are more in need of acquiring adab than learning Hadith’'.
This highlights that knowledge and adab both are essential for us.
Imam Zakariya al-Anbari rh.a said:
'‘Knowledge without Adab is like fire without wood, and Adab without knowledge is like a spirit without a body’'.
What use is knowledge to a Muslim, without the practical mannerisms and etiquettes that really define us as Muslims?
The mother of Imam Malik rh.a would place an imama on his head and send him to his teacher Rabi'ah ibn Abdurrahman (nicknamed: Rabi’ah Ar-Rai’) to learn first from his manners, his adab and then his knowledge.
''Indeed the deen of Islam is itself manners, where anyone that surpasses you in manners, is better than you in deen''
(Ibn al-Qayyim).
Abu Huraira رضي الله عنه narrated, that the Prophet
said:
“I have not been sent as a Messenger, except to perfect character (Akhlaaq)”
He also said that:
“The nearest of you to me on the Day of Judgement will be the one who is best in character.”
(Bukhari)
All the books of Hadith have chapters on Adab. For example:
1.Muwatta’, Imam Malik:The book of good behaviour
2.Sahih al-Bukhari:The book of manners
3.Sahih Muslim:The book of dutifulness, ties of kinship and manners.
4.Sunan Abi Dawud:The book of manners
5.Sunan at Tirmidhi:The book of manners, and the book of dutifulness and ties of kinship.
6.Sunan Ibn Majah:Chapters on Manners.
The book Al Adab Al Mufrad was separated by Imam Bukhari rh.a because he was aware of its great importance in everyday living.
Allah سبحانه وتعالى tells us in the Quran that in His manners and style, the Prophet
was a perfect example:
“Truly, you have the best of manners”
(Quran Al Qalam: verse 4)
It has been narrated by many Ulema that if parents give any inheritance, there is no greater inheritance than adab.
Al-Walid ibn Numayr rh.a said that he heard his father saying:
“They used to say, ‘Righteousness is (a gift) from Allah سبحانه وتعالى, but adab (right conduct) is from the parents”.
In this sense however, adab holds such importance that the actions of a believer are rendered null and void if they lack manners. In pointing out the status of adab in comparison to actions,
Imam al-Qarafi rh.a said:
“You should know that a little of good manners is better than a lot of good actions”.
Ruwaym rh.a the righteous scholar told his son;
“Oh my son, make your deeds salt and your manners flour. So much like the “perfect dough”, many good manners with a few good deeds are better by far than many good deeds with a few good manners''

