Random Virtues

Ras�lull�h sallall�hu 'alayhi wa sallam said:

"The best woman among you is the one who is untainted with regard to her honour and chastity, and who loves her husband."

Lesson: To love the husband is actually happiness of the heart. Despite this, there is virtue and reward in it.

A person said to Ras�lull�h sallall�hu 'alayhi wa sallam:

"O Ras�lull�h! I have a wife. When I go to her, she says to me: 'Welcome to my chief and the chief of my household.' When she sees me sad and sorrowful, she says: 'Why are you worrying about the world? Your hereafter is being made easy for you.'" Upon hearing this, Ras�lull�h sallall�hu 'alayhi wa sallam said: "Inform her that she is from among all those who are working for Allah (i.e. doing good deeds) and she is receiving half the reward of those waging jih�d."

Lesson: Look at the immense reward she received for this insignificant gesture of hers (which caused comfort to her husband).

Ras�lull�h sallall�hu 'alayhi wa sallam said:

"O women! Remember that the pious among you will enter jannah before the pious men. (Later when their husbands will enter jannah) they (the pious women) will be given a bath, perfumed and then handed over to their husbands on red and yellow conveyances. They will have children with them who will be like scattered pearls."

Lesson: O women! What greater virtue do you wish to have? You have already reached jannah before the men. Obviously, the prerequisite is that you should become pious and this is not difficult.

Ras�lull�h sallall�hu 'alayhi wa sallam said:

"The woman whose husband is not at home, and she safeguards her honour, abandons beautifying herself, remains at home, abandons everything that is considered to be a form of beautification and offers sal�t with steadfastness will rise on the day of judgement as a virgin. If her husband was a true believer, she will be his wife in jannah. If he was not a true believer, e.g. if he passed away without �m�n, Allah will perform her nik�h with a martyr."

Ab� Dard�' radiyall�hu 'anhu narrates: "My friend, Abul Q�sim sallall�hu 'alayhi wa sallam, made me a bequest. He said: 'Continue spending on your house folk according to your ability.'"

Lesson: Those who act miserly when it comes to spending on their wives despite being able to spend should ponder over this Hadith.

Ab� Hurayrah radiyall�hu 'anhu narrates that a believing man should not despise a believing woman (i.e. his wife) because if he does not like a certain habit or trait of hers, he is bound to like some other habit of hers.

Lesson: In other words, he should think about this and thereby exercise patience.

I asked for reference to the claims on first page of this thread. I wanted to know whether it was from Quraan or hadith.

instead of getting a reply my question was deleted!

may I ask why?

was it because all of it or part of it is a fabrication?

is this an other fraudulent site? :(

Ma'asalaam