Many students succumb to such drastic measures. Some students work and study extremely hard but fail. Due to failure, they sink into such depression that they feel they have to take or inject themselves with drugs, tranquilizers, etc. for sleep. Why ? Because they failed.
If a person did not make Tadbeer, i.e. did not make a serious and concerted effort and thereafter fails, then he must blame himself. However, generally, we do make a reasonable effort but sometimes still meet with failure. For example : A person is fit and healthy when he started something but later becomes sick and is unable to complete what he undertook.
Tafweez is placing our matters before Allah Taala, handing them over to Him, and trusting completely in Him, believing that there is goodness in whatever Allah Taala has decided. Outwardly, it may appear as if there is some problem that we are faced with, but great wisdom lies in the decisions of Allah.
Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) has said : Strive to acquire what is beneficial for you; seek the aid of Allah; do not lose courage and if a setback overtakes you, do not say : If I had done this then it would have happened like this (i.e. not what had happened). Instead say : Allah has ordained this. Whatever He has willed, has happened.
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