Asslamo Allaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh,
I have now lived in the West for nearly ¾ of my life, interacting regularly and on a daily basis with Non-Muslims with diverse backgrounds and opinions.
I have also lived and worked in Saudi Arabia where majority of the natives believe every Non-Muslim wears a cross, is an Israeli supporter, bent on destroying Islam and harming Muslims. The Fatwaas of permissibility of consuming the commonly available meat and marrying local woman also stem from the misunderstanding that majority of the Non-Muslims in the west are Ahlul-Kitaab (people of the book).
Anyone who has ever lived, worked or studied in the west knows that most people are either agnostic or Christian by name and employment laws don’t require registration or tracking of religion in any field (of employment) let alone in abattoirs so your cow/lamb/sheep could be slaughtered by a Jew, or a Christian or a Hindu, or a Muslim or an Atheist so it’s ridiculous to assume that because the meat is available at an American or British Supermarket it was slaughtered by someone from Ahlul-Kitaab (people of the book) and similar is the case of most women i.e. they are Christian but in name!
Anyways, back to the subject... :- )