Brothers i may have given a 1st divorce to my wife and i am confused as well please advise for context - years ago my father out of nowhere said to my mother i give you my first talaq now. Because she speaks very rude to him anyway i was very angry at my wife as she was rude to me and recently shes been quite aggressive i do so much for her but i feel the appreciation isnt there, i try make her life easier shes a very good wife we have children overall i am happy with her but recently shes been not as good - she always goes in a mood and iv told her i want peace and a good life usually when she argues i say i think you never liked me so if you really want you can leave me and find someone better (immature i know) but deep down its like a threat not saying i want you to go an marry someone else- shes not very loving but thats her nature.... anyway usually i say to her youve gone quite rude and the way you speak to me sometimes and make my life abit harder than it is better you jus leave now and go to your mums house but its always a threat never you leave now today.. i said to her if you keep carrying on 'like my father i will not hesitate to give you the first talaq right now' now i was angry but i dont think this is a 1st talaq, i still think this is a threat of talaq but she is saying that after that i said 'which i will give you now' i wasvery angry i do not remember but i know i said- i dont think this is a talaq as i nevet said this is your first divorce etc ' like my father i wil not hesitate to give you your first talaq right now' i did not say you are divorced for ever, or say you are divorced three times, or said i give you talaq, but i said like my father i will not HESITATE to give you a talaq right now (or 1st talaq right now) nor did i say i give you the first talaq now? if i said what i said ' 'like my father i will not hesitate to give you the first talaq right now' 2 if i said what she is saying i said ''like my father i will not hesitate to give you the first talaq right now, so ill give you it now) but i did not say so here is my 1st talaq worst case scenario if she has got her first talaq, shes in her idda now, if i say to her i am taking you back or be intimate with her is this reversed? i will do both and never mention the word talaq ever- or tell her to go to her mums if she wont improve her attitde( the only time i tell her to go home or leave me is based on the fact if she wont stop being rude etc) obv i have learnt my lesson - to do these threats, or talk about talaq, no matter how angry i wont mention it but just upset and feeling paranoid? overall these words were used as a threat never in my mind i wanted to divorce her because i love her.... In short- If i said ‘like my father i will not hesitate to give you the first talaq right now’ Or what my wife says (i was angry and do not remember) i said like my father i will not hestiate to give you the first talaq right now which i am going to give you now Throughout this the intention which was made clear to her was on the basis she does not change moving forward at not any point i was thinking of giving her the first talaq

My wife has PCOS. We were having a heated argument on phone. She kept asking me for divorce on phone. I kept refusing her and then she asked to me for divorce again and i hung up the call. I gave it a thought and decided not to give her divorce. she kept on calling me and i was not picking her call. Then i decided to pick her call and says words to scare her. The conversation that i remember goes like this: Wife: "speak", "what happened" and then i replied "whatever you wanted has happened (in urdu)", next words i am not sure what i said but could be one of these phrases "we dont have a relationship anymore (in urdu)" or " i am not your husband anymore" she replied crying that please dont do this. then i am not sure if i said "you are free (in english)". then she started having panic attacks and i told her that i havent given it. I clarified that i didnt do it. Please note that i am sure that i didnt have any intention to do it. Scaring her was the last resort for me because she is going through PCOS and eventually she starts hitting herself. I just wanted to shut her up and it worked. Please let me know if its talaaq or not and if it is please let me know if it's bain or not. Please note that my wife only remembers me saying "what you wanted has happened" and i never used the word "talaaq". Also, after the phrase"what you wanted has happened" I am not sure what the exact words were but for sure I never said Talaaq explicitly neither did I ever intend too.

As-salam Alaykum My question pertains to using lip balm while fasting (this is more complicated than you might think). I have developed a condition on my lips in which it has become compulsory to use lip balm after every 15-20 mins. This came about as a permanent side effect of an acne medicine which I took many years ago. The problem is that the lip balm is always going down my throat as I can taste it. This is when I am not fasting. However, when I am fasting, I still have to use the lip balm because of the (extreme) condition that has developed. I can do without food and drink but I cannot do without lip balm any more. Should I continue to fast or should I stop fasting and just pay fidyah for the rest of my life? Thankyou.

Salaam, 1. If I wipe my newborn child with wet wipes after defaecation or urination, and then wash the private parts with water in the sink, are the splashes which fall back on me and my clothes Najis? 2. when the child is born, the nurses just wipe the blood with a towel. When I m going to bath the baby ( after some days ) are the splashes which fall back on me Najis? I would like to know if there are differences in the opinions among the scholars? I would like to choose an easy way to relief myself. Thank you!

I have seen a hadith about camel and horse racing, but if we are to take the literal meaning of this, it wont apply for this question. Therefore need your help in this. The mode of transport over the years have changed and new industries have come into the picture. One is the profession of racing of cycles and cars in different forms, stunting and drifting. What is the view in islam for this? And also what is the view on doing it casually, not as profession?

Salam Sheikh, is it permissible to use my mother's name and date of birth when doing Istikhara for marriage? The other family hasn't met me or my family even once, yet they performed Istikhara based on my name, date of birth, and my mother's name. Additionally, someone interpreted their dreams and shared some future insights about me. I wanted to ask if this is an authentic way of performing Istikhara or not. JazakAllah

Asalamualaikum Most respected Moulana A family member of mine passed away while studying as an Alim (Shaheed). An Alim who was instrumental in the ghusal and kafan (who had only met my marhoom a few times) Narrated this story anonymously That on the way to the qabrestaan for the burial while carrying the janaza he heard the marhooms voice tell him Moulana you must please be the last to leave ( meaning from the grave after the burial) Most respected Moulana I would like to know if it's possible for the mayit to speak or could it have been something else commanded to speak on his behalf Jazakallah khayr

Al-salaamu 'alaikum I was praying a sunnah prayer and when I got to ayah 21 of surah Ya Seen I accidently recited ...اتبعوا ما لا يسألكم instead of ...اتبعوا من لا يسألكم. Does this error require me to repeat that prayer?

Assalamu Alaikum, My mom is diagnosed with Dementia. Lately, she started to forget how many times she performs her sujud and ruku, My sister who is taking care of her sometimes stop her while praying and let her perform again, sometimes she doesn't because she pities her. Questions: Is my mom's prayer valid? Should my sister not stop her in the middle of prayer? Should my mom prays again (we are afraid, it will stress her more)? May Allah reward you

Assalamualaikum Akhi I\\\'m in prison and I have a ? That the Muslim community really needs help with a answer. Would it be permissible for the Imma to lead the salat in this setting by being in the middle when we line up to pray due to lack of space to prostrate.