30th October 2005
I am living in UK for last 6 years. while i was studying here i liked one girl, instead of meeting her alone i send message through my family to her father. first her father refused and threatened me to kill. but i asked him that in islam women have full right to exercise her own will. after lot of discussions when her knew that he had no alternative then he accept that and promised me that he will merry us in 3/4 months.
he deceived us, he not only emotionaly blackmale her daughter but alse brought her back to pakistan to merry her to his relative. because he knew that in Norway and UK he couldn't do this.
he merried her without her without her will and brought back her back to norway. his father got the visa for his realtive and brought him back to Norway. there in Norway there was lot of fights with that guy and her father.
then she left her father house and we married. i spoke with her father after that and he accepted me as a son in law. but refused to meet me.
now we have a son and we also got divorced confirmation from Norwegian goverment.
i would liek to remind you one hadiss here:
Marriage (Kitab Al-Nikah), Book 11, Number 2090)"
Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas: "A virgin came to the Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) and mentioned that her father had married her against her will, so the Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) allowed her to exercise her choice. (Translation of Sunan Abu-Dawud,
now i would like to know that is our marriage is valid or not according to islamic law. i would like to add here that they never slept together. and she never accepted her as her husband from heart. she also told me that she was so young so her fatehr played with her childish mind and emotionaly blackmale her.
i beg you that please answer me question as soon as possible.