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Please help jazakALLAH kher

Question date:   2nd November 2011
From:   Bill
Short URL:   http://qa.muftisays.com?4152
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Question ID:   4152
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Asalmalikum Imam Sahib,


I was talking to my wife a couple of months ago on the internet (chat) and we started talking about her regarding her visit to her parent's house.I do tend to get a bit angry when this topic is touched as she keeps saying to me that I never let her go to her parents house etc. I am now very scared that I might have said something that affects my marriage or god forbid invalidates it in this chat.When I said the text below I kept getting the thought of divorce word going through my thoughts.So I am not sure if that's a waswasa or intention as I had been getting such waswasas for the last year now.This has become a major problem for me and I would appreciate it if you can go through the following chat and let me know what's the fatwa on this? I have highlighted the major area of concern as I saved the chat .Please please please help inshALLAH.
JazakALLAH kher.


me: you have been wanting to go for such a long long long long time.i mean you know as well as i do you should go to ur hearts content

Wasalam,

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Ulamaa
Ulamaa ID 04

Answer last updated on:
29th November 2011
Answered by: Ulamaa ID 04

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Bismillah

Al-jawab billahi at-taufeeq (the answer with Allah's guidance)


Thinking about divorce does not constitute a divorce. However, if you intended Talaq with an allusive word of Talaq then Talaq will take effect.

As you are experiencing Waswasa, you should ignore it and do not bother. Instead recite the Quran making a daily routine, and engage yourself in abundant Zikr of Allah.

Recite La Ilaha IllAllahu Muhammadur Rasulullah.


And Only Allah Ta'ala Knows Best.

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Moulana Qamruz Zaman
London, UK

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