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Talaq(plz help me)

Last updated: 24th January 2007
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alam
I am a married woman since 6 years once my husband gave me talaq after when we had severe quarell with each other and he didnot tell me that he used the word talaq .we then got separated because of many clashes but i till then was unawre of the fact that he gave me talaq.Then once he told me that he gave me but was in anger .Then once on a phone he used the word talaq but he was in anger too and didnt want it happen intentionally.Then again he gave me talaq on phone(3 times) and after it said that he lost his temper and said all in anger.Now i want to know that did talaq happen?Here i also want to let you know that Ist time he used word talaq for 3 times but i didnt know about it and lived as husband and wife .second time when he gave we had relation and third time too we had relation amd still have.
We both love each other and dont want to lose each other ,we want to live happily as before but as husband and wife realtion .But now we r in doubt that whether talaq did happen or not .Please please plesae sir do me a favour and tell me a right solution for it as i love my husband and dont want to have talaq.

Sir i am in much distress and i hope u will give me a right solution.I know that u are the only one who can help us .Please sir dont disappoint me and reply me as soon as possilble.
Please give fatwa on it.


Thanks a lot
with regards and hopes that u will reply me
Jamila
One thing that i must know that in 28 para of Quran there is told that "if u even say a word maa for ur wife then u must have to fast for 2 months continuously "
If saying maa to ur wife demands a big kufaara then why there is Rayat for talaq?
As i read in one of islamic site that talaq doesnot happen if man uses these words in extreme anger and doesnot want to use but just use these words in anger.




In the Name of Allah, the Inspirer of Truth.
Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

From what you have said, your husband has given you clear-cut Talaaq, on more that one occasion and exceeding three times, in anger and without intention.

The marriage has ended without any chance of reconciliation as three Talaaqs have been issued, any more than three are disregarded. Your living together is not permissible, and you must necessarily separate.


And Allah knows Best
Wa Alaykumussalaam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh
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Answer last updated on:
25th January 2007
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