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Question: intimate relation
i want to know can a husband put jam or honey on the breasts of his wife and lick it from there can he kiss the vagina of his wife. can the wife suck lick and kiss the penis of husband when is wearing perfumed condom. also can the husband put his penis between her breasts and buttocks for the pleasure but not inserting into the anus? i am sorry for explicite wording because i do not want to commite sins? so please be considerate and reply me by email. thank

 
 
Answered by: Ulamaa ID 04 (London)
Date: 03/09/2006 00:35am

Bismillah

Al-jawab billahi at-taufeeq (the answer with Allah's guidance)


The arousing of one another by touching, kissing is permissible. Also, to kiss the breasts is permissible.

However, to touch each other private parts with the lips, is morally indecent and can lead to fluid entering the mouth.

Therefore, Oral sex will not be allowed in any circumstances, even with a condom.

Please refer to:

http://qa.muftisays.com/index.php?viewpage=viewQA&question=57
http://qa.muftisays.com/index.php?viewpage=viewQA&question=226
http://qa.muftisays.com/index.php?viewpage=viewQA&question=406


Also, the husband masturbating the wife (explained in the question) actually falls in the category of foreplay which is permissible between the husband and wife.

The Holy Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) is reported to have said, "Every religion has a characteristic. The characteristic of Islam is modesty." (Ibn Majah.)

Also, Nabi (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) has mentioned, 'Modesty is part of Imaan (faith).' It is, thus, necessary to behave and exercise in a modest manner.

Intimacy between the husband and wife relationship should be conducted with mutual understanding and with modesty, respect and dignity.


And Only Allah Ta'ala Knows Best.

Mufti Qamruzzaman

London, UK
 
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