So far twice divorce has taken place in our marriage .

Today i wanted to have sex with my wife and she was not in mood i tried to convince her but she was not ready for it , then without any intention or will i uttered words to such effect as a question " Harram hai Tu Mere par" with meaning that are you haraam on me (since she was refusing sex) no way it was in my mind any thing else

Please let me know does it have any effect on my marriage my intention was not to make her harram on me rather i was trying to tell her that its halal to do why you are stoping only thing is that words were not in proper order of question but i intended to make comments as a question to her. Secondly i am also not 100% sure that such words were uttered as they happened to come out of my mouth without my control but looks like more likely i uttered as such