Marriage - Over 13
22nd May 2006
sir,,,
if wamen says tha i m gonna leave u and marry with ather guy..what happend in islam
Marriage - Over 13
19th April 2006
is it ok for us to have intercourse with the wife when she has finished her menstruation but has not done her ghusal yet or dose she have to have a ghusal first and only then we can have intercorse with her
Marriage - Over 13
1st April 2006
assalaam walaikum,
My question is "Is Oral Sex and Masturbation allowed between a husband and a wife in Islam?"Can a husband masturbate her wife and vice versa.....Also tell me about Cunnilingnus and Fellatio i.e Oral Sex ?Is it allowed?
I also want to know what are the limitations of physically relating with wife.....
What is the perfect way (sunnah tariqa) for physically relating with wife?
please gimme answer to the questions..
Marriage - Over 13
7th December 2005
So far twice divorce has taken place in our marriage .
Today i wanted to have sex with my wife and she was not in mood i tried to convince her but she was not ready for it , then without any intention or will i uttered words to such effect as a question " Harram hai Tu Mere par" with meaning that are you haraam on me (since she was refusing sex) no way it was in my mind any thing else
Please let me know does it have any effect on my marriage my intention was not to make her harram on me rather i was trying to tell her that its halal to do why you are stoping only thing is that words were not in proper order of question but i intended to make comments as a question to her. Secondly i am also not 100% sure that such words were uttered as they happened to come out of my mouth without my control but looks like more likely i uttered as such
Marriage - Over 13
8th September 2005
Asalamaliakum wa rahatullahi wa barkatahu, Respected Muftis, Alim, Kaif Haal antaa, i want to know about can man drink/swallow his wifes milk, is this allowed in islam, some boys say that man can drink/take his wife milk, i said this is wrong, please clear my doubt plz
i am waiting for u r reply
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Marriage - Over 13
22nd July 2005
Salaam to all who read this
I have a BIG problem, I am 7 months pregnant and my husband says it is wrong to carry on normal marital relations.
Is he right? I don't know and I have no way of finding out either.
All I know is that it makes me feel ugly and worthless because it hurts as he is slowly distancing himself from me.
Marriage - Over 13
15th July 2005
say if someone is breast feeding and the milk gets on ones clothes will the clothes need to be washed ?
and will ghusul become farz ?
Marriage - Over 13
13th July 2005
Dear Mufti Sahib
My wife is pregnant and in her first three months. She is giving me very hard time sexually. As I approach nearer, she says that her heart is sinking and she feels like vomiting. Our marriage is new and its our honeymoon baby.Please tell me if women are allowed to refuse their husbands during pregnancy. If they do so , do they fall under the warning of Hadith stating that if women don't attend their husband's call towards sex and husbands become angry then Angels will curse them.
I adopted a way to satisfy myself, I told my wife to masturbate me but she gets tired in the way so i ask for more physical touching around other areas.
Now the Question is :
1. Is it Halaal to ejaculate myself while playing with my wife's genitals?
2.Is it Halaal to rub my penis to the point of ejaculation and then tell my wife to hold it in her hand and make me ejaculate finally?
3.Is it allowed to touch one's penis and rub if one is with wife?
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Marriage - Over 13
6th July 2005
As salaamu alaikum Mufti Saahib,
I sincerly ask for your advice as to what to do.
I am a married woman, who got married in order to be able help control my unnatural desire for women.
Astaghfirullah, i am deeply ashamed to have mention this in your blessed presence, but i cannot cope any longer as i am also pregnant and am still having the same problem.
alhamdulillah i love my husband, find him attractive and we have a normal private relationship- but none of this has helped my problem. i have never, ever mentioned this to anyone, not even to my Shaykh (Riyadh ul Haq) due to being ashamed.
Not only do i have the desire in my heart but also i search on the internet for lewd pictures to look at.
i feel as if the whole earth has become very narrow for me and i dont know where to turn to from my evil desires. i have had this problem for many years, and i feel afraid to die with this desire still in my heart.
I pray 5 times a day, wear full hijaab, read Qura'aan and have studied much Deen before i married a year ago;all of this to no avail.
I have also performed on many occasions Tawbah, weeping over this sin. Even when i am alone, i weep as i do not know what to do.
i request you for many, many duas.
Marriage - Over 13
15th May 2005
Are we allowed to use condoms in islam
Marriage - Over 13
15th May 2005
Respected Ulema
Kindly assist me with the following query. Can one please let me know if oral sex is allowed.
My husbands says that a reliable mufti has told him that it is okay to have oral sex in his case,as he has a desire to have oral sex with his wife. so everytime he wants it i have doubts,and he states that he has confirmed it with a reputable mufti.what is my position in all of this. He says that as long as the mazi does not enter my mouth it is allowed, meaning he will use a condom.
Is it also allowed for me to mastrubate my husband? My husband has told me that this is allowed so please let me know.
Jazakallah
Your Sister in Islam
Marriage - Over 13
26th April 2005
sir one of my friend is newly converter he wants to ask that before accepting islam he and his wife used to have sex in diferent ways. Such as kissing/etc private parts from both husband and wife.
now he wants to ask is that also alloud in islam if yes then to what extant like if it is aloud to kiss nipples or kissing of penis by wife and kissing of vagina of wife.please give the answer and make us wise on this subject.thanks"
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Marriage - Over 13
7th October 2004
I'm in a love with a girl who feels the same way and we want to get married. Her parents object cos I'm not same caste. What does islam say about this? And what should we do?
Marriage - Over 13
7th October 2004
Is oral sex acceptable in Islam or is it stritctly forbidden. I've heard different view points on this but the answers seem to vary from scholar to scholar. From what I understand, it is actually permissable only to the extent that it causes arousal between the partners. Can you advise, shukran.
Marriage - Over 13
7th October 2004
Why is it haram in Isalm to have sex before marriage?
Marriage - Over 13
7th October 2004
iam 21, recently got married, the problem is the person i got married to , hes in back home i dont lave him at all. i tried being a good wife to him , but inside its failing. iam pregnant aswell. hes avery good guy theres no fault in him.when the marraige took place i wasnt happy,to make my parents and family happy i said yes.so i gave in to give a chance. iam still not happy and in side its killing me. i should be happy now. idont know what to do, help me please.
Marriage - Over 13
7th October 2004
I am in love with a guy who is 30 years old and i am 34 years old. we had consensual sex in one instance and after that we promised not to do it before our wedding, and asked for Allah's forgiveness. Will it be considered a sin even if we get married? And also the guys parents are not agreeing to wed us off as i am older than him, will it be a sin for him to defy his parents wish and marry me? Please let me know
Marriage - Over 13
7th October 2004
i am 18 years old i sexually frustrated. . i have communicated the problem with my parents. they say that i have to do sabr beacuse i am currently studying and i wont be able to support a wife. i have tried fasting but it greatly affects my studies. my father has told me to masturbate because of my situation, would this be allowed in my circumstance? i already keep my gaze down and avoid being in contact with women at all unless absolutely neccessary but still the urge is there. i do not watch tv and i pray all my salah and i am also seeking ilm from ulama. i busy myself with zikr whenever i feel aroused and i try to keep my self as busy as possible, but i dont know whether i can keep this up for at least 5 years until i complete my studies.i am following the advice that is usually given and it is helping to a degree. my father has told me that no one will be willing to offer their daughter to me, i acknowledge and accept this. also this abstinence has created a certain amount of hatred for women i consider them sometimes stupid.
Marriage - Over 13
1st January 1970
Assalamu alaikum. I have a friend that masturbates. I told him that it NOT allowed but he doesn't believe me. He said "It doesn't say anything like that in the Quran so why should I stop." But I know that there must be some sort of hadith saying that you can't masturbate but I just can't find one. Can you please give me a hadith saying that masturbating is not allowed so Insha Allah he can stop.
Jazzakallah
Marriage - Over 13
1st January 1970
My husband divorced me four times on the phone, after a day we talk to each other and dicided to live as husband and wife. We have heared that if both of them agreed to stay togather during the eidath the nikah will stay. So we slept togather and agreed thet we will not make any mistake again. Please guide me through this matter and suggest me what should we do now.
