Marriage - Over 13
5th October 2006
Assalam-o-Allaikum
1) I converted to islam 3 years ago and i am a left handed person. Since
i was a child i have been eating and drinking with my left hand and it is very difficult for me to switch to right hand as i have tried but too hard. Is it
permissible in Islam to eat and drink with left hand???
2) In Islam is it permissible for a husband to lick or taste or swallow the precum
and cum of his wife?
3) Does it break the nikkah between husband and wife if they do anal
sex?
Marriage - Over 13
17th September 2006
My wife came to me and asked if I can give hand to her in preparing food. I was busy in my work on computer and without giving much attention to her, I said "NO". She lovingly asked, "look, aren't you my husband". Again without giving much attention, I continued and said "NO". Later she realised what has happened and now we are very worried.
Marriage - Over 13
14th September 2006
Alhamdulilah I am a religious sister who prays, wears hijab, and pratcices thikr of Allah.
I divorced my ex-husband two years ago after I caught him gambling. I tried for 8 years to make it work but the problem continued. I am 26 and have two children. I support my children and myself. Alhamdulilah I have a wonderful and well-paying career and a college education.
He does not pray but says he stopped gambling. I do not have any proof of this. He has a blue-collar job and can barely support himself. I really do not know what to do. I want to do what is right and please Allah.
Admin Edit:
Addition:
I forgot to mention that he is pursuing to get re-married to me. He begs my family and friends for me to re-marry him.
Marriage - Over 13
3rd September 2006
i want to know can a husband put jam or honey on the breasts of his wife and lick it from there can he kiss the vagina of his wife. can the wife suck lick and kiss the penis of husband when is wearing perfumed condom. also can the husband put his penis between her breasts and buttocks for the pleasure but not inserting into the anus? i am sorry for explicite wording because i do not want to commite sins? so please be considerate and reply me by email. thank
Marriage - Over 13
31st August 2006
assalamu alaikum
my husband wants a 2nd wife but does that mean going in chat rooms and talking to girls is allowed?when am not there 2.Is it permissible to find a wife this way?Am i allowed 2 have a say in this?
Marriage - Over 13
24th August 2006
Salam
Im nt at all in a crisis to overcome the sitution of having relation with ma gng to be groom.PLS HELP.
Im 18 & gng to get married.I wear full purda & hence have no relation with men.How will i have relation with my husband?I donno anything abt SEX. How is it afterall?What will i do on the first night?Must the bride approach the groom first?must we uncover ourselves...our whole body... our breasts & private parts?Can we look at each other fully nakedSo must not we wear pyjamas or undergarment on the first night?I"M TOO MODEST AFTER ALL!!i cant imagine!Marriage is fast approachin...DO HELP!!!!!!ADVICE ME!ESP IN ISLAMIC POINT OF VIEW!!!
While bathing alone can we bath only with underwear... or even naked?What about bathing with husband?
Marriage - Over 13
23rd August 2006
if someone is forced into a marriage through threats and fears for their life, and the marriage is subsequently consummated is it valid?if the other forced party is still refusing to accept it?, i.e the woman, can she still reject it when she is in a safer place?
Marriage - Over 13
12th August 2006
AOA,
Since 1 Year, I am sick with vericocle deceases, In this deceases the Vain is broken that carry a blood to Testicle. My Right side Vain is some how damaged and its do 50% work.
And Doctor says; you might be not able to become FATHER. After marriage. It is not sure that I can develop enough active cells for Lady. A doctor says there are 50 percent chances. For given a birth of child.
(In these deceases there is a shortage of thick water, nothing else
There is no medicine except very small operation.
You please tell me should I do a marriage?
What should I do what I say to my Parents?
Allah is vit-ness I don�t want to cheat any one or I don�t want to destroy any girl life.
Please please answer me immidiately
May ALlah Bless you.
Marriage - Over 13
12th August 2006
hi can a talak given without intention and been forced be valid
Marriage - Over 13
11th August 2006
asalaamu alikum wrwb,
can i attend a wedding where men and women are both present, it is normally women only hall but men can come in and out to call thier women. also some men maybe present helping serving food, can a sister attend such a ceremony?
what happens if she is asked to help at the wedding, is she allowed if other men maybe present in the hall?
Marriage - Over 13
10th August 2006
Aslamoalikum mufti sahab, I do nikah with the girl I love i just wanna ask some different question.That is it right in islam to suck private parts of your wife body.or is it right to do sex from anal mean backside if u do ure nikah breaks or not.and also is it prohbited to put finger in vagina and anal.and is masterbation is harmfull.You cant make child and satisfy ure wife if you do after marriage.and from where i can find my answer.I am really shamed to ask this question but i didnt do anything just i want to take information.bc i am a muslim and i have to know about the boundaries of islam which i dont have to cross.i will be greatfull to you.Allah app ko jaza de ameen
Marriage - Over 13
8th August 2006
Salaams. I am a married person with 2 children, however due space issues my wife is now sleeping in seperate room with 1 child & me in another room with the other child. I have to verily ask her to come into my room to have sex which I am getting very tired off, we do use contraceptive & she does enjoy it, but I am sick off making the first move all the time & having to wait, on some occasions she does not even enter. I have threatened her that I will go and fulfil my desire outside as sometime I go without it for upto 3 weeks. If she does not listen and does not help me fulfil my desire I know she is sinful but in this case can I justify having it elsewhere?? How can a man continue on this basis!
Marriage - Over 13
5th July 2006
if a man or a woman are engaged and they know they are getting married to each other. is it permissable for them to have sex before they get married or any kissing.
Marriage - Over 13
4th July 2006
If some one( student,male,age 20) not have resources to marriage so masturbation is allow for him.
Marriage - Over 13
30th June 2006
Salaam,
I will be brieft. My wife and i argued and our marriage has been plagued with problems. During argument i said to her that "I am divorcing you (or "I am going to divorce you") and then i said "I have given you Talaaq". Then i left the house and after an hour i phoned her. She said to come home as i only said talaaq once. She started to nag me so in order to stop her from that i said to her that "Am not coming home. Its over, its finished (meaning our marriage).I meant all three talaaqs (I know i didnt mean all three when i said talaaq at home but only said it here to stop my wife from nagging me). I thne hung up. Now what i would like to know is are we still married or has all three divorces taken place? I have been contemplating divorce for some time as we have never seen eye to eye with regards to anything. Her parents have always got involved heavily and i've never been able to say anything to my wife without others giving their own interpretation.
One more thing is that when i said divorce and the subsequent telephone conversation, i very much wanted my marriage to be over but cant say for sure if my intention was all three talaaqs.
I await your reply.
Jazakallah
Marriage - Over 13
30th June 2006
my question is that are you allowed in islam to bave with your wife with out any covering of the private parts.
Marriage - Over 13
28th June 2006
Asalaam Walikum.asthakfirullah I have commited a bad sin and would like to know what I should do to repent,what the punishment is and how to stop it from happening again.
Also, what should I do about a marriage situation because we want to get engaged but what are the limitations how far can we go when we are engaged.also does she have to take Shahada before we get engaged.
Then if we were to marry would we need to live in the same house?we are from different towns so is it acceptable to get married and live separatly. If so is it ok to be as a husband and wife are with other and live separatly,whilst being married of course.
I would appriciate it if you could answer these questions.My Allah grant you rewards for all your time and Jazakallah Wassalam.
Marriage - Over 13
13th June 2006
What positions are we allowed with our wife during intercourse?
Marriage - Over 13
5th June 2006
IS IT ADVISABLE FOR A MAN TO SLEEP NEXT TO HIS WIFE AFTER THE WIFE HAS
DELIVERED A NEW BABY. IF NO AND HOW FOR HOW MANY DAYS SHOULD HE BE
AWAY AND WHAT OTHER PARAIZ IS REQUIRED
JAZA KULLAH
Marriage - Over 13
26th May 2006
My husband and I married in 1999. In 2000, he sent 3 divorce letters pronouncing 'talaaq' thrice on three different occasions to me (April 2000), his own father (cannot confirm date) and my father (August 2000).
My husband admitted to me, my family and his own family that he sent each divorce letter, confirming each letter was an original letter and written and signed in the presence of two witnesses each time.
My husband and I re-married again in 2001 after being told by a Maulana/Alim that we could because the marriage had not been consummated. However I have since been advised that a Fatwa can only be given by a Mufti and re-marriage is only allowed on the basis that no privacy/intimacy is observed/experienced during the time of the first Nikah (Khalwate-Saheeha). My husband and I did spend time in privacy and did have relations but did not consummate the marriage (this was not mentioned when the Maulana/Alim was consulted).
Can you please answer the following questions:
1. Was I divorced in April 2000 or August 2000? I have been advised by Muftis' in Bury and London that divorce took place on reciept of the first divorce letter.
2. When should I have observed my Iddat? 3 months from April 2000 or 3 months from August 2000?
3. What is the Islamic Sharia ruling on the above and confirm if the second Nikah is valid?
4. If the second Nikah is not valid does this mean I am still divorced from my first Nikah and have since been living in haraam?
Jazahkallah-kahirun
