Over13
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i am 18 years old i sexually frustrated. . i have communicated the problem with my parents. they say that i have to do sabr beacuse i am currently studying and i wont be able to support a wife. i have tried fasting but it greatly affects my studies. my father has told me to masturbate because of my situation, would this be allowed in my circumstance? i already keep my gaze down and avoid being in contact with women at all unless absolutely neccessary but still the urge is there. i do not watch tv and i pray all my salah and i am also seeking ilm from ulama. i busy myself with zikr whenever i feel aroused and i try to keep my self as busy as possible, but i dont know whether i can keep this up for at least 5 years until i complete my studies.i am following the advice that is usually given and it is helping to a degree. my father has told me that no one will be willing to offer their daughter to me, i acknowledge and accept this. also this abstinence has created a certain amount of hatred for women i consider them sometimes stupid.
