Aslamoalikum mufti sahab, I do nikah with the girl I love i just wanna ask some different question.That is it right in islam to suck private parts of your wife body.or is it right to do sex from anal mean backside if u do ure nikah breaks or not.and also is it prohbited to put finger in vagina and anal.and is masterbation is harmfull.You cant make child and satisfy ure wife if you do after marriage.and from where i can find my answer.I am really shamed to ask this question but i didnt do anything just i want to take information.bc i am a muslim and i have to know about the boundaries of islam which i dont have to cross.i will be greatfull to you.Allah app ko jaza de ameen
Al-jawab billahi at-taufeeq (the answer with Allah's guidance)
1) Oral sex is forbidden.
Please refer to: http://qa.muftisays.com/index.php?viewpage=viewQA&question=1680
2) Anal sex is forbidden.
Allah ta'ala says in the Qur'aan: 'Your wives are a tillage (farm) unto you, thus approach your tillage from wherever you wish.' (Baqarah Aayat223).
The Prophet (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) explained the meaning of the Aayat by saying that, 'Intercourse in the Vagina is permissible in any position which one desires to adopt.' From the front or rear, so long as intercourse during menstruation and anal sex does not take place, for these are Haraam. (Tafseer Fathul Qadeer; Shawkaani).
From the above, we understand that the husband may approach his wife from the front, sides or rear, all are permissible, as long as intercourse takes place in the vagina, and not in the anus. Know, that anal sex is a grave sin and is completely forbidden, regardless of whether the wife agrees to it or not. Doing it does not break the nikah, but you should immediately abstain from it and make sincere taubah.
3) inserting finger in vagina and anus.
In principle, husband and wife may take benefit of each other from any part of the body. The husband and wife may touch the private parts of each other.
However, Nabi (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) has mentioned, 'Modesty is part of Imaan (faith).' It is, thus, necessary to behave and exercise in a modest manner.
Intimacy between the husband and wife relationship should be conducted with mutual understanding and with respect and dignity. That also includes the manner of intimacy explained in the question.
4) Masturbation between husband & wife.
If the means of stimulation is one�s spouse�s body, in such a case, and not any self-stimulation, then it is permitted, and not considered to be masturbation.
The wife masturbating the husband and vice versa actually falls in the category of foreplay which is permissible between the husband and wife.
