Muhammad Bilal
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Assalamualaikum wrwb.
I have a long situation with multiple questions so please bear with me. Moreover, noone has yet answered me and I'm in a difficult question.
I am from Pakistan. I came to know about a girl. Her family is Shia (with beliefs of shirk, asking from Hazrat Ali and Hazrat Fatima, slandering the sahaba, accusing Hazrat Ayesha of Zina Naudubillah etc) but she doesn't believe in any of it and has become Sunni. She has publicly announced it infront of her friends too. And also doesn't take part in any Shia activities. We shared how we intend to live our life and liked her and wanted to marry. My parents agree to it but we approached her parents, even my parents went to her parents but they refused. Moreover, they are extremely oppressive, they abused and said bad things about her infront of us as well etc. And said they will onlyarry in Syed family.
So, we have decided to do court marriage with wali and witnesses as some righteous islamic persons. My questions are :
1. Due to the aqeedah of her family, they can't be wali or witnesses right? So i can do court marriage as she doesn't have a wali or witness. As per Hanfi fiqh as well, she can marry without wali anyways. What do you say about it.
2. My reason for marrying her is that she's righteous and shares same intentions to spend married life as per Shariah and learning and teaching deen. But also because if I don't marry her, her parents will forcibly marry her to some Shia person or some non righteous Syed Sunni just to marry her off and she will have to do it under pressure. Her family is dangerous to the point of beating or even harming. If they come to know about our marriage they can harm her even if she's with me. She's going outside to Beligum to do masters so she can get out of the house and she will come back during holidays and we will get married in presence of my family. But she will still try to convince them to agree else she will marry by her own in an attempt that they agree (and yes. All tries to convince them lovingly and with hikmah seems to have failed)
a. If i marry her, but suppose if her parents agree later on to marry her off. Then, I know we can do nikkah again(Tajdeed e Nikah) infront of them. But since they can't be wali and witnesses, this re-nikkah will not be valid. But is it allowed in this situation as a Maslahah to do/show a nikkah just to show them with them as wali/witnesses which will not hold any Sharayi value as in normal conditions this nikkah will not be valid but since we have done nikkah already, this will be just to show them so that his family doesn't harm her or us in the future snd we can spend our married life at ease.
b. if they still don't agree, what do you think should i do.. because i have decided firmly that we will marry still because of the situation i told you.
Hope you understand my questions. and answer me at priority.
Jazakumullahu Khairan Kaseera Sheikh.
