Marriage - General
16th January 2008
Assalam aleykum could u please answer this question ID # 2914 A.S.A.P. its quite important since i dont trust alot of internet site please try to understand what i am trying to say
Marriage - General
3rd January 2008
A boy and a girls wirte 3 times on a paper with their signatures that they both accept each other with out any other witness and if the same persons introduce each other as a wife husband to others.. do such thing can count as "Nikah"
Marriage - General
2nd January 2008
assalamu alaykum,
first of all, i begin by praising the almighty allah and ask him to reward you for your efforts to serve this deen. i have two questions, both of which are of utmost importance to me.. 1) i wanted to know about the permissability with regards to wearing coloured contact lenses within the boundaries of hijab..i.e:i am unmarried and i do full hijab..is it permissable for me to wear them in the house, in such a way that non-maharim cannot see me? 2) secondly, a friend of mine is currently studying to become an alimah..she recently began a kind-of text message and fone relationship with a muslim brother, who also happens to be studying to become an alim..they know they have done wrong, and try really hard not to converse with each other but can`t help it. he hasn`t even seen her but he truly does claim to want to spend the rest of his life with her..shes also feels the same way..he has told his mum, and she said that she will sort it out in 4 years, after my friend becomes faarig..but 4 years is a long time and i know they will continue their relationshio, though i know for a fact that they will not physically commit zina..they will, however keep in touch via phone- she is asking my advice and i simply don`t know what is in her best interests.please advise me as to how i should respond.... jazakallahukhair, fa ahsanal jazaa
Marriage - General
2nd January 2008
a personn asked as to why prophet s.a.w. had 11 wives where as islam only permits 4.
I always thought that this was one of the speciality of our prophet s.a.w.
Is there any other reason why (if u hav reference then i humbly request)
Marriage - General
15th December 2007
please tell me if two people have their nikha performed in front
of 2 female and 1 male witness and the khutba is read
but the famalies of both people do not about it, is the nikha valid
wasalam
mit2
Marriage - General
15th December 2007
assalamualakum.
i feel ready to get married but their to seem to be no decent proposals comming however my parents are not worried because they are leaving it to allah s.w.t as i am also but some time i get bad thoughts i have been reciting the dua that you have published in one of your answers but if you have any other wazifaah tp recite please reply back.
jazakallah.
Marriage - General
9th December 2007
My parents have found a suitable match for me. Both myself and the male have spoken and agreed to this marraige. Both parties are happy and have no doubts.
Is istikhara still necessary?
Marriage - General
2nd December 2007
please give me a wazifa of marriage,,,i would like to marry that type of boy (gud nature,gud looking,educated,strong famliy back ground,honest
and gud for me)
Marriage - General
5th November 2007
Assalamualaikum
I wanna ask a Question regarding my marrage.
I am alhamdulillah a hafiz ul Quran and an imam in a mosque. i wanna marry a girl, who is studying medical and wanna become a doctor in future, and she say she wanna work in a public hospital and she doesnt wanna cover her face and will not cover after marrage.
i am alhamdulillah an imam, i told her, i wont let you work in a public hospital but i will get a private surgery where you can only treat women intseat of men. but she doesnt agree with me and she say,, i will work with man,
other thing, i told her, you have to cover your face. she doesnt agree with me for this thing as well.
now i dont know what to do. can u please give me some advice in the view of islam,
1) can i marry such a kind of modern girl
2) am i right of asking her to cover her face.
i will be pleased if you can sort my problem out
jazakallah
asif
Marriage - General
3rd November 2007
Dear sir,
If the Prophet MUHAMMAD (PBUH) regret about HALALA, so why this word is in the Islam,
what is the order to that women who divorced and again want to merry with the person from she divorced and the man also.
If HALALA is not in the Islam, than in my veiw she will complete the time of Iddat and oppalogize from GOD (both of them man and women) and then they will make a NIKKAH again.
if i m wrong than kindly guide me with references.
Marriage - General
25th October 2007
How are you my dear brother in islam.
See my aunt married a man out of our family. Her son then married a woman also totally out our family, but THEIR DAUGHTER and i really like each other. Is it permissible for us jet marry? please repley. masha allah
Marriage - General
17th October 2007
So far twice divorce has taken place in our marriage . I am frequent visitor of your website i have another question on divorce .
Today i wanted to have sex with my wife and she was not in mood i tried to convince her but she was not ready for it , then without any intention or will i uttered words without having the will to utter some what like , as a question " Harram hai Tu Mere par" if i translate this in English it would be like "Haraam you are for me" or " Haraam are you for me" i think it could go both way but my intention was certainly not to make her haraam on me and neither i wanted to utter these words it all just happened(Since she was refusing sex) no way it was in my mind any thing else
Please let me know does it have any effect on my marriage my intention was not to make her harram on me and i intended to make comment as a question to her. Secondly i am also not 100% sure that such words were uttered as they happened to come out of my mouth without my control but looks like more likely i uttered as such
Marriage - General
9th October 2007
We were discussing Nikah-e- Mut'ah on a forum.
http://forums.gawaher.com/index.php?showtopic=3668
it was forbade by the prophet peace be upon him during his life time according to the Bukhari hadeeth. But one person brought up the hadeeth from Muslim. Hadeeth of Bukhari is:
It was narrated from ?Ali (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade mut?ah marriage and the meat of domestic donkeys at the time of Khaybar. According to another report, he forbade mut?ah marriage at the time of Khaybar and he forbade the meat of tame donkeys.
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 3979; Muslim, 1407.
And the hadeeth of muslim is:
Book 008, Number 3250:
Abu Nadra reported: While I was in the company of Jabir b. Abdullah, a person came to him and said that Ibn 'Abbas and Ibn Zubair differed on the two types of Mut'as (Tamattu' of Hajj 1846 and Tamattu' with women), whereupon Jabir said: We used to do these two during the lifetime of Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him). Umar then forbade us to do them, and so we did not revert to them
Mut'ah was forbidden by the prophet peace be upon him, so what is the meaning of the Muslim hadeeth?
I want to know how to answer to a person who brings the Muslim hadeeth up.
http://forums.gawaher.com/index.php?showtopic=3668&view=findpost&p=38147
Also Mut'ah is where one marries a woman, has sexual intercourse with her, than divorces her?
Muwaqqat is: Temporary marriage. E.g for one year?
Am I right?
Jazakumullahu khairan in Advance.
Marriage - General
6th October 2007
Assalamu-alaykum mufti sahib. I will be getting married in 3 months time inshallah and wanted to know if engagements are allowed in Islam. In an engagement, you hold the lady's hand and put the ring in the finger and as far as I know, you aren't supposed to touch a lady without doing nikah. Another point I'd like to mention is that how long of a gap should there be from engagement to nikah. For example, would it be possible to have the nikah 3 months after the engagement? In this gap, would I be able to meet my fianc? alone to get to 'know' her and understand her? I know for a fact i WILL get married to her as my family is happy with this relation and I KNOW the engagement will not break. If I'm not allowed to meet her, then what is the purpose of the engagement? What rights do I have over my fianc?? I hope you could answer my question as I will need to know if i could go ahead with the arrangements. Jazakumullah-khayrun.
Regards,
Brother Salman
Marriage - General
5th October 2007
Assalamoalaikum
Hope you will be in good health.
I want to know that
1-The nikah without vali is valid or not.
2-If a girl want to marry a person and her father is not allowing her.what is the condition in that case.
3-what if the girl is not virgin.
jazakumullah khair
wsallam
Marriage - General
4th October 2007
If the girl at the time of signing the marriage-contract is not accepting it from her heart, but signs it; but after several years of her marriage accepts it from her heart; is the nikkah valid?
Marriage - General
29th September 2007
Salaams
Is it jaiz to invite Non-Muslim's to ones walima?
What if they are lodgers or neighbours?
Salaams
Marriage - General
28th September 2007
salams mufti saab
I prayed istikharah for a girl,last night i saw something,i saw me finding a key then opening something with it,I dont know if it was a sign or just a normal dream.It sounds silly but i hope you can interpret it for me.I apologise for the lack of information
Zazakallah.
Marriage - General
25th September 2007
can i go for a holiday after marriage or will this be considered to be a honeymoon and a unislamic thing. the reason i wish to go is that after marriage i will be living with my parents and we the couple will not be able to spend much time alone.
please advise.
Marriage - General
16th September 2007
I DON'T WANT TO MARRY IF MY PARENTS FORCE ME WHAT DOES ISLAM SAY
IF A MAN HAS NOT HAD KHITAN CAN HE MARRY
