i love a girl who is qaidiani , i want to marry with her, but if she converts to islam. But confusion is this that , i have with her for almost one year, i havent seen any difference in her dogma , she reciets Quran , she offers namaz , she knows about masails of islam . im confused in this situation. but im very serious about her , and want her to convert to islam in any case.
Al-jawab billahi at-taufeeq (the answer with Allah's guidance)
There is scholarly consensus (Ijma`) that Qadiyanis or Ahmadiis are not Muslims. Therefore, marriages with them is not permissible.
If however, you want to marry a Qadiyani you must first endervour to correct her beliefs and bring her in line with the Ahlus Sunnah Wal Jamaa teachings and then marriage with her will be permissible.
Also, The concept of 'seeing a girl' before marriage and to have feelings for her inside your heart is something totally condemned by Allah Ta'ala. You must repent at once.
Allaah Ta'ala says,
"Say: 'O My slaves who have transgressed against themselves (by committing evil deeds and sins! Despair not of the mercy of Allaah; verily, Allaah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful'. [39:53].